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How are you all dealing with parents and other relatives getting on your case and giving you sh**t over not wanting to have kids?

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Cue friends with kids leaving me on read at 3pm on a Friday. Message with you next week, I guess. Really starting to see that I just need to move on from these friendships.

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How many kid photos of a good friend do I have to "like" on social media?

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Opinion poll! "Like" this post for "yes," or click the "smart" icon for "no" to help me decide. lol. I don't hate kids, but I don't want my own. Like,… more

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Friend doesn’t follow politics because she is raising a toddler and a working lawyer; I don’t have kids, in part, because of politics. I envy her obliviousness, but am also a little stunned.

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Last night when my wife got home from work, I reminded her to say hello to the dog and she said “I’m so glad we don’t have kids” haha

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First payday at new job! Treated myself to some spa products and bought my cats a new toy. So fun not having to spend anything on kids.

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Met someone I like and pretty sure he likes me back too, but none of us make any explicit moves because we both know he wants kids and I don't. Another reminder for me that it's hard in dating… more

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And free time! Happy weekend childfree friends. Enjoy doing whatever you want ☺️

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Didn’t know this group existed and I am so glad I found it!! Happy to be here with likeminded folks.

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Can i stop seeing babies on my ig feed 🥱

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Anyone dating someone with kids? How are you navigating?

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Are children (who can’t be vaccinated) really going to be banned from NYC indoor places soon?!? 😃😃😃🎊🎉🙌🏻

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I attended a baby shower today. Left feeling so smug.

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33 F. All of my friends are having babies. I get really lonely when they aren’t available because they are either tired from child rearing or are actively rearing their children. Happens every weekend… more

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10 years ago today I had my tubes tied. It was the best thing I ever did for myself. It took years standing up to practitioners, reiterating my preference, and fighting for medical decisions over my o… more

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CF ladies, are any of you NOT taking hormonal birth control? I don’t like the idea of putting hormones in my body and wondering if anyone here is using any of the other options

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I am not sure how I feel about having kids. I lean mostly towards wanting to remain child free as I can’t see myself at all excited about having babies. I love my niece, however, when I had to babysit… more

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Ever reflect on the exact time in your life you knew you did not want kids, and the triggering event or circumstance? In my case I just never had a maternal urge at all.

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Guess we’re all disabled now? (Obligatory yes I know it’s likely fake, posting for the laughs)

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There is a baby in my home today. (Friends are visiting.) Help.

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Think you all may emphasize better since you're not blinded by the "miracle of life". Is anyone else disturbed by the commercial surrogacy industry? It's crazy that the sale of human… more

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Do you feel like nowadays more men than women want kids? Considering they suffer less negative effects physically, socially, and career-wise.

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Curious as to who is in this bowl. I just realized that I assumed it would be mostly women as the child rearing gets thrown in our face more, but realized that assumption is likely very wrong. - 34F, … more

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Social media has made me go from not wanting kids to definitely not wanting kids. So. Many. Baby. Posts. Everywhere. Non-stop. People complain that when you have kids people only see you as a “mom” o… more

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The breeders are definitely coming for this one. (Not saying either one is wrong or right!) 👀 🍿

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I've been dealing with anxiety / depression for over 4 yrs. My husband has also been fighting disassociation and depression for just shy of 4 yrs. What can I do to support him when I'm havin… more

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Put in my two weeks notice to go to a 9-5 style job where I will still be paid more for less work! I am a female, and when I told one of the male partners, they were like "yeah that makes sense, … more

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How is everyone spending their child free holiday? The fluff nugget and I are driving to Montana 🐶

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Any child-free folks want to get together for a drink Wednesday evening?

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I just ended a relationship over (in part) not wanting kids. This is the second relationship out of two in the past five years I’ve had end because of this issue. Are they all like this? Why does no o… more

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Anyone else here seek out neighborhoods that don’t have an abundance of kids/babies/strollers/parents? Am I the only one?

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For anyone who is worried about dying alone, a brief (true) story… my uncle said he would take care of grandparents. Uncle convinced them to sign over the money to him. He had always been decent…until… more

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