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Hey, a fun fact - Do you know in many areas, I can confirm for UP, you get dowry as per your profession. There is literally an auction-like scenario whenever a family is looking to wed their son. Med… more

Bahot jaldi retire ho gaye. Team bana di poori🙏🙏

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To fellow married females, In WFH what is the situation regarding cooking food, especially if you live with in laws. Is there anyone who has to manage cooking food for everyone, alongwith doing thei… more

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I am M and I think its too disgusting to discuss things like dowry. We are in 21st century and still discussing these , for those who thinks boys want dowry - you are wrong. Majority is against it and… more

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What's the dowry rate there in your States or Cities or Villages ? If you're married did you get it or if your sister got married did you pay it ? I know it's more prevalent in my home sta… more

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Shayd 35 tak mil jayega didi ko😌😌

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Strict for govt job, but strictly against dowry

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So many posts of guys cribbing about girls expecting higher salaries when they themselves are earning less, I may get bashed but 1 point I would like to bring to notice that majority of boys marry lat… more

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What's happening in this bowl..!? Ladke bechare ban chuke h jaise ki kabhi ladki hi nhi dekhi...🤦‍♂️🙄 Ladkiya khud ko kohinoor ka heera samjh rhi jaise sirf vahi h is duniya mai anokhi..🤔😒 … more

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Marriage goals 🥰

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Deloitte USI ke bowl me kisi bandi ne apni new shadi ka RR chhapa hai. Like, uske sasural vale usko wfh karne ke lie bol rahe hai and office nahi jaane de rahe. Bas itne fadde me logo ne comments me i… more

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Has someone in this group had a case in friend/family circle where caste became and issue and marriage did not go ahead or went ahead with super difficulty?

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Ladies, If you are married. Do you regret it? Yes/No If yes, why?

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I want to keep a poll. This is for married men. Have you cheated/ sexted/ flirted behind your wife’s back? Have you ever hit on girl’s pretending that your marriage is not working out? How did t… more

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Earlier when child marriage was prevalent (Early or mid 20th Century): Marry at 15/16 ..Live upto 85-90 Easily. Now when life span has decreased due to various biological and climatic factors and ill… more

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Dudes and dudetes. Thoda apna baseline set karlo. 1. Bartan maid dhoyegi. 2. Kapde machine dhoyega. 3. Your parents would be taken care of the same way you take care of hers. 4. Chahe jitna bhi tumh… more

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The way we are seeing discussions in this group, it looks marriages are going to be task in coming times 😂

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Do you ever feel that you let the love of your life go because of your childishness and now you'll never find such a love ever again?

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Aap bartan bhi saaf Karo aur Maldives bhi ke jaao didi ko.

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Attack Bois😂

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Can someone help me with few genuine queries? Thanks in advance. How does it feel after marriage?What are the pros and cons of marriage? Is marriage really that fascinating as it looks before gettin… more

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Serious boys to send all proofs document and plan for future followed by stating how lifelong relationship will be sustained. Girl's parent also want boys to write an essay on marriage life, also they need someone from IIT cleared UPSC 😕 Ab hum tier3 btech wale pvt company ke "resource" kare toh kare kya?

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How dowry system should work? (Boy CTC - girls CTC) * 2 If girl is earning more then boy have to give the same to girls family.

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35 LPA CHAHIYE APKO... TO KRIPYA 50LAC TAYYAR RKHE ALONGWITH FORTUNER AS DAHEJ. TAALI DONO HATO SE BAJTI HAI.

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Posts on this forum -> 'Let's share likes and dislikes' - No girl replies 'Let's find partner for dating' - No girl replies Controversial post 🐒 - So many girls reply 💃… more

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Kaun kaun apply kar raha hai iss JD ke liye??

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Ye jo matrimonial sites par 25 LPA expectations rakhte hain groom se, unki profile mai "no dowry" kyun likha hota hai? 😅😅

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Do share some positive things which happened to you last week!!! Any would work , lets share some positive vibes!!

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Is this bowl helpful to anyone or just for bak**** ke liye hai ?

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To all the single girls in the group 😝 Tum bhi DM me ping krna seekho........

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Hello Guys, You might feel that this is an absurd question but how to deal with sexual frustration? I don't want to get married just for this however having that desire, frustration (tadap) at th… more

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Planning to get married. Liked a girl in matrimony site, my parents and her parents liked each other. Now girl's parents have given me her number to have a talk, am i kindof introvert - and pleas… more

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Guys post your CTC , one good thing one bad thing about yours . Please don't type that thing that always you always tell when you interviewing in an company. 😁 BE true Girls just like the prof… more

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Fishes, please share your successful dating/relationship/marriage stories or happy moments! 🥂

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#Mental health I am facing mental health trouble around 4-5 year or may be more Nowadays I am getting irritated by small things 2 years doing wfh and it is getting worse day by day It it getting… more

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Be careful guys! If u are hoping to get married, just nod to each and every ask from ur wife, else Section 498 will make you remind of that for ur entire lifetime

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Few years ago, i hurt someone really bad and we haven't connected since then We both mutually liked each other but were not in official relationship. She is most awesome girl i ever met till date… more

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Let's spice things up it's the weekend after all At what age you lost your virginity?

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