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2|3 Only spotting, not a real period. I have an appointment with my Doctor to get a new, Woman OBGYN(my current one is a man and I always feel rushed during appointments, because I am not pregnant. I have an idea of what she will ask, however are there questions to keep in mind to ask her during initial assessment? Also should I freeze my eggs now if they are even viable? How long is the process of egg retrieval? My partner is supportive. I also wonder how expensive it will be.

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