273 days: one day at a time. The ninth month was brutal, but good preparation for the holidays.

Also got to see someone celebrate 3 years today, so that was pretty cool.

Let’s keep going!

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Thanks for giving me some hope today! Had a hard week. Glad to hear how you’re doing, gives me some strength!


I’m sorry to hear you had a hard week. Stay strong! There are some good sobriety apps that I use every day.

One is Everything AA. It has different zoom AA meetings, and some are focused on newcomers.

Just don’t pick up the first drink. We got this!


I will not drink with you today!


Awesome, one day at a time


Today is a great day to stay sober. :)


Congratulations! Keep coming back my friend.🙏🏾😍


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