28 F, In verge of Divorce, abusive partner , been never in a relationship so far other than this idiot who cheated me, never know what love is , father always hated me because he is not interested in holding any responsibility ,so he always abused and scolded me for no reason.Always been a school topper, college topper and consistently performed very good in office because I don't have any other stuffs to do and no body to actually talk to.Just feel like ending it altogether

I'd like to sell my condo in Central NJ but I've never done something like that before and feel a bit overwhelmed / intimidated by the process. Adding to the complexity, it's a deceased parent on the mortgage, not me. Is a realtor someone that can help? How do I find a good one?

To those on here that are married/in a relationship: how'd you meet your SO?

I'm so glad to see the changes to accept more women in academia in recent years. I'm hopeful that my own daughter will be able to follow in my footsteps one year.

Does anyone have experience with a prenup/postnup? I have been wanting to get a postnuptial because I did not think about these things when I got married. We make the same salary, have separate accounts, but I have been building my wealth and working hard at saving my money while he has a mountain of debt and doesn’t save. It scares me to think if anything happens, he could just take half of my assets.

Met this guy through friends a few years back. He made me feel really special, told me he was going through a bad patch with his gf at that point. Things happened between us in a couple of months and

Promote to manager in October and just found out my wife is pregnant with baby number two with a due date of October 1. Guess my first 4 months of manager are going to be on leave!

I’m the new kid in an agency that’s had cuts & the only other writer is a CD who’s always focused on her own campaigns and work. How do I seek guidance and work to improve my work without a mentor?

I had a non traditional path out of law school because I graduated at the height of the Great Recession and my mother was seriously I’ll with cancer. I’ve worked for 2 big four firms in internal positions within compliance/regulatory for a total of 6+ years and am ready to make a move. What is my next best one? Is it totally impossible for me to go to a law firm?

I thought that I had baby hairs, until they grew up and went to college. Now, I'm under the impression that baby hairs are broken hairs in disguise

A guy who is claiming to be in love with me (a black woman and immigrant), is a conservative (pro-trump, anti-gun laws, denies that there is racism etc). Are those red flags to make me cut him off?

What is the latest in your pregnancy you would feel comfortable with your husband traveling? My husband is planning out his travel work schedule and is asking me and I’m honestly not sure!

My SO is scared to ask his parents for his money back. The money they were holding on to for him. Now that he’s a grown man I think he’s old enough to hold on to his own money. He like needs a valid excuse to ask for it back and I’m like why do you need an excuse when it’s your money and he’s like well I don’t want to start a fight…. And the last time he spoke to his parents about it apparently there’s been some mix ups and so they need to sort thru what’s his etc. (CONT’d in comments)

Will have a kid soon. Are 529s a good investment or better put that money in something else like ETFs? Has anybody done something else other than 529s. Would love to get some perspective. State offers tax savings

How do you guys make new friends in LA for an over 40 gay CPA? Corp culture, gay or straight, in LA is like that in Japan...either drink or become isolated in both your personal and professional life.

Received an offer from a top FAANG for a 250% increase in TC. However, I was initially interviewing for a position that was remote and yet the final offer does not provide that option, non-negotiable. I have a wife and 2-year-old child and another one due in 7 months, and currently live near both sets of grandparents.

Is working at a top FAANG really worth that kind of cost? I'm leaning heavily 'no' but it's not making it easy to sleep at night knowing I'm sitting on this kind of offer!

How do you determine what issues in your relationship deserve working on and staying despite feeling disrespected/frustrated versus ending it? Definitely have a tendency to not give second chances out of fear my kindness is being taken advantage of, but I notice many people work through it and don’t take it so personal.

How long after your last break up did it take you to sleep with someone else?

Biggest regret? I know mistakes teach us lessons and we wouldn’t be who we are without them. But I also believe it’d have been better to avoid some of them. Me for example, trying to make an unhealthy long distance high school to college relationship work for two years. Major regret

How has life changed for you since March 2020? From a personal point of view, I would love to hear unique points of view and perspectives of how their life is different now from before.

I work with a classroom of Middle School ED students. One student, who I worked with the year before, has changed alot over the year. Last year (pre COVID), she had a good head on her shoulders and I thought I had good rapor with her. But over that period of isolation, she tried to commit suicide.

All year, she was much more withdrawn and ALWAYS on her phone! At the end of the I was 'beat up by her - she really knocked my glasses off.

How should I approach her in the upcoming year?

Hi I have submitted the documents two weeks before in Capgemini for an experienced position. Till now I didn't receive final offer letter.May i know how much time it will take to receive a final offer letter from Capgemini?

I have Capgemini offer with 22LPA years and in TCS it is 12Lpa but in TCS I had UK onsite in my hand?May i know in which I can have max savings?

Hi Fishes ,
I resigned from Capgemini so they are trying to retain me with onsite opportunity in UK . What will be a effective package for a C2 Band Manager SAP in UK.
Pls help it's kind of urgent .

How long does it take to release an offer letter after documentation. It's been more than one week of documentation. And today I called HR and she informed me there will be one more round formal discussion with the business panel team You will get the invitation soon.

I am a little worried about the situation. Is that normal practice for Capgemini

I just received an LA-based financial services Controller job offer for $120K plus 10% bonus. I'm currently a manager with 7 years of experience in public accounting? Is this is a competitive salary for the level of experience.

What's the main difference between working at a large hotel chain vs. a boutique hotel?

I'm trying to pivot my hospitality career to more of a project management career, can I get any advice as to where to start?

I have left 10 days of notice period. I am waiting for an offer so I can counter to the one offer i am holding.
What is the minimum days a company needed to update the offer after sending the counter offer.
I am aware that the existing company has the budget to match my expectation.

received a full-time offer from both PwC and Deloitte. Need help! Deloitte is offering me 70k and Pwc is offering me 65k for audit.

What are some things that make a candidate stand out when presenting design projects during an interview?

How is the work life balance in a big 4 firm for a senior in the tax department year round?

I am a Talent Aquisition Manager with a strong leadership and sales background. I'm looking for new opportunities. I would like a remote opportunity with a team of 10 or less. Salary expectation is 120k with a commission structure. Any recommendations?

Anyone know who does the PR/advertising for YO home sperm tests? Know it was March initially but wondering if they’ve shifted

What to do with Fastly? 😌

Is PTON done? Buy, hold, or sell?

I'm currently working in one of the big4s(I am a 2022 passout). My college's HoD forwarded a mail for on campus placement of hsbc for batch of 23, she knew that I am very interested in jobs in financial institutions(like banks etc). I spoke with her, she told me, "fill up toh karde, fir HSBC ke haath meh". So, I filled it up and applied for hsbc.
Will HSBC consider a 2022 passout in the oncampus round of 2023 batch?

Is there any band at each level? If yes what is the starting band for Manager level and min salary package?

What is the best order for application of facial products? Toner, moisturizer, sunscreen… Trying not to look 100 too soon.

Also, can anyone recommend a sunscreen for brown skin that isn’t greasy, doesn’t cost a fortune and layers well?

Hi 🐠! Has anyone in the NYC-area had smartlipo done with a surgeon they really liked or other helpful info? Thank you!!

Any solutions to fix/reduce smile wrinkles besides Botox?

Any recs on hyaluronic acid and niacinamide product lines that actually work?

What's your age & fave skin care product today?

Looking for a nice face sunscreen that won’t break the bank and is available in jumbo size! Using a full 1mL per application makes it run out so fast. Opinions?

Suggest some good ways to exfoliate men's skin at home.....thank u fishes..

Tips for staying less stressed around the holidays? Anyone have good advice on a morning or night routine? Thanks