28F. Moving with my boyfriend + WFH have really affected my sexual desire. I used to be the one initiating and now I have to force myself. I can see it’s affecting my relationship and my boyfriend is wondering if Im still attracted to him. Has anyone else experienced this?

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I was in this situation. Ended up dumping him because I felt unloved and unsexy from all the rejection/him forcing himself. Didn’t want to be doomed to a passionless, sexless marriage eventually. Things that help with sex drive:
1. Leave your work anxiety at the door (we are not saving lives & you won’t die if you get CTL)
2. Strength training and eating clean mixed with a little cardio
3. Do stuff that makes you feel sexy eg pole dancing classes or just going out dancing or wearing heels, red lipstick, sexy lingerie, whatever you need to get turned on by yourself 🙂

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No. He didn’t have much sexual desire although he didn’t lose it. He wasn’t sexual from the start

Been with my wife for 15+ years and there definitely have been ups and downs in our sexual activity and in our relationship as well. If you love each other, talk about what bothers you two and adjust accordingly. It's never easy, but always worth it and never fails if you both want it to succeed.

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You’re going to have to be more specific about your situation. Does he WFH? Did you literally just move, or move IN with him? Etc.

Yes he WFH. I moved in with him ~8 months ago and starting experienced this feeling ~4 months ago

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