28yo associate. Any advice on discussing with your partner (of 18 months) that you would like to apply for lateral opportunities in a new city (2hrs away)? They have previously indicated in general conversation that they would never move there. Thanks

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Be open and honest! Explain why you want to pursue the lateral opportunity, reassure your partner that the motivation is not to end the relationship (if that is true), and listen to the response.

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2 hours is a short jog, more so if in the northeast corridor. Offer to split the difference and live 1 hour from each of your jobs if that's a concern.

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