Male in my 30s here. I’m overweight, and my doctor believes this contributes to my low T-count. I’m working on dieting, portion control, and exercise. My wife is (understandably) feeling sad. What is the likelihood that losing all my excess weight will make the difference? Has anyone done this before?

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