35 female here. 7!months TTC. Going on 8. Had consultation with fertility specialist today. Is it normal to feel hopeful and dejected at the same time?

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Oh yes. Most definitely! There is also the monthly Rollercoaster of hopeful and then disappointment after every failed cycle.

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All the feelings are normal on this journey. Hopeful because a specialist will give you some concrete next steps, dejected because it’s a bit of a defeat to be here isn’t it? I felt like that when I first saw an RE, and then again when I started IVF. Like great we have a treatment plan, we’re bringing out the big guns, but why can’t I be normal?

Good luck with everything! In case it’s helpful, this bowl had been a great resource for me for info and support.

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I’m 32 and 6 months TTC. It’s hard to be hopeful and disappointed at the same time. And definitely an emotional roller coaster. Unfortunately, it is normal and finding support with trusted family, friends, communities like this and others can help along the journey. 💕 Happy to connect amor feel free to DM me and we can both support each other through the process.

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I am 36..TTC for a year .. I can very well relate to you . I schedule appointment with by RE . Just feeling sad with all challenges have to face . Plus I am still working outside as normal 9 to 5 Job

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