3rd date with a really nice guy (in a 2 week period) and he asks me to be his boyfriend. I’m definitely not there, I do like hanging out with him, but I don’t want to lead him on, if I don’t feel same

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I think it’s fair to say I like you. I want to hang out with you. But I’m not ready to be exclusive.

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3 dates is lightning fast in my book. I’d be a little hesitant based on that behavior, but if also express that I enjoy time with him and an need to get to know him better first

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