66 members already! For those of you currently working a 12 step program, if you choose, share below your addiction and your length of sobriety. Perhaps that’ll get some good Q & As going

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Alcohol, 1️⃣ year sober today.

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Alcohol, one year two weeks sober!

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Alcohol. 1.5 years! ☺️

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Not a 12-stepper (think AA is great, just wasn’t the right path for me) but alcohol and 12 years sober.

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Hey A1. I often feel that way too. I do use AA, but I’m not one of those people who live, sleep, eat the program. I go to meetings weekly on Sundays and take what I like and leave the rest. It’s a part of my recovery, but not ALL of my recovery if that makes sense. Been sober for over a year now and I like the community aspect, but some stuff I’m not a fan of. We all work the program differently and that’s 100% ok 😊

6 years clean and sober. I was hooked on alcohol, then pain pills and then Adderall. Didn't do these all at once tho. Had last drink in 2010, last Adderall in 2012 and last pain pill 6 years ago (well I did have a couple of surgeries where I took pain med, but took them as directed.

There is a program called "SMART RECOVERY". This program isn't 12 step bases. It's a good program. It is more cognitive in nature whereas AA is more emotional in nature.

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