A buddy of mine from b-school recently went missing. I hadn’t heard from him in a while, but I know he was constantly stressed-out and overworked as an investment banker. Passed the message on to everyone who might have been in touch with him, and that’s all I figure I can do to help. Thinking that most cases like this don’t end well and can’t stop thinking about it.

Anyone dealt with something similar?

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Maybe he is just off the grid? Can't tell you how tempting the idea is to me....

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Am really hoping it’s that. All I know is that his family is very concerned about his state of mind and his well-being.

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One cause might be mental health (schizophrenia, psychosis etc.) You basically lose all rationality and might wander off somewhere or harm yourself and others. Good on you OP for making the effort, fingers crossed for the person!

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If you or someone you know is suicidal or in emotional distress, contact the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. Trained crisis workers are available to talk 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. Your confidential and toll-free call goes to the nearest crisis center in the Lifeline national network. These centers provide crisis counseling and mental health referrals.

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Bummer. Hope you can find him. This is also for others out there who may need assistance.

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Have you informed his family? Or the police?

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I believe the police are investigating as a missing person case

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sorry to hear that. How long it has been that he is missing ?

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Damn I agree that doesn’t look good. I’m sorry 😐

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