A douchey white guy on my project assumed I was interested in him just bc I offered to help him with a deliverable. I was just trying to help the team. How to move forward from this awkwardness?

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So sorry you had to deal with this, OP. Guys can be ridiculous in the workplace. 🤦🏻‍♀️ Just project total confidence and professionalism. Do not treat him any differently than you did before. Do not treat him any differently than you would any other teammate.

Slay, queen. Slay. 👸🏻

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I’m embarrassed for you by your description of him

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This feels so childish I’m embarrassed to even post this like we’re all adults here

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Agree with D1. But do stay away from being alone with him or going to 1:1 lunches, dinners etc with him. Not that something might happen, but just to remove any potential for him to think he can woo you.

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