A few male non-POC that I work with have mentioned that diversity programs make them feel left out of opportunities.
Anyone else experience that, how do you respond (if at all)? I refuse to engage.

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Tell them to go cry in their craft beer and leave you alone.

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They don’t deserve the mental and emotional labor or energy output of a response.

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FWIW, I've take both approaches. If i have the energy to, i try to give that feeling some context... that they way they are feeling is subjective, and that any time things become more equal the people who have been on the positive side will feel like they are losing something... and they are, but it's not something they earned or were entitled to.

I will say tha I am more likely to engage when start to hear people say that it's about punishing white people, or getting back at people. That narrative is what allows them to comfortably dismiss this issue, and that's way worse than just whining about it.

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I generally agree. That said, I have a good relationship with my boss, as well as with our c-suite and I have had those conversations with them. Totally situational and always risky, but if you can make it work, it can be productive.

I tend to engage. Because I like to get context on their feelings and give context on why these initiatives are necessary. While privilege is assigned to groups, people’s feelings are personal... And as CT1 said, it’s natural to feel like you are losing something when you are in the group (due not to your own personal actions) that benefits most.

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Ah, the unconscious entitlement. Well, non diversity programs have purposely left us out. So....this is called equity.

And further more, the world looks more like us so perhaps the corporate world should too...

(I wouldn’t say the last part tho but it’s what I would be thinking)

@huge Totally agree. I've been trying to coach some of the younger folk to speak up, but they are so reluctant.

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