A girl messaged me on Instagram after seeing one of my posts on discover. We’ve been chatting for a few weeks and she’s pretty cool. Turns out she’s 18...and I’m 28. should I stop talking to her?

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You can’t sleep with her if you stop talking to her

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Big dick energy from EY1 over here 😂 always a plus

Nah it’s legal, totally up to you

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May not have much to talk about though

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Yes plz

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Who let Epstein in here?

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OP - Being “legal” and being “okay” are two different questions. You asked the latter.

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If you have to ask then you already know the answer.

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Yes and talk to me instead. I’m 26.

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Could you guys keep us posted and let us know how it went?

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I would try to verify she’s actually 18 and not catfishing

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The half your age plus 7 rule says you shouldn’t touch anything under 21.

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That's interesting

are you even sure she’s 18?

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You do realize she just graduated HIGH SCHOOL, yes? I have no issue with age gaps at all, in fact, my husband is exactly 10 years older than me. However, we met at 29 and 39. The difference is that we were adults who had similar experiences in life. She can’t even drink for another 3 years... dates would be pretty awkward when you want to order a beer lol

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Did the message come from Chris.Hansen@NBC.com?

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Isn’t that what you audit people call a material variance? Cannot provide any assurances here.

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So did OP end up in jail?

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Damn I’m 26 and I’m not even close to being that bold. But it depends on what you’re looking for.

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Yes.

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I should mention, 18 is legal...basically everywhere.

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I’m the same age as you. While I don’t think that a 10 year age difference is unreasonable when you’re 38 and 28, I think back to myself at 18 and there is a huge difference between 18 and 28, even if she’s mature for her age and * if 18 is in fact her true age.

I’ve definitely changed a lot as an individual since I was 18 and if at 28 I’m looking for someone to be talking to that much and maybe one day settle down with, I don’t think that’s an efficient use of your time. As an 18 year old she’s going to need to spend the next few years + ‘finding herself’ and what she wants in life.

I would rather spend more time talking to people with life experience who are comfortable with themselves and know what they want out of life, not worrying about what they will wear on their first day of college.

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Or talk to me I’m closer to your age

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What’s your city?

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Yes

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Barely legal, and make sure you check her ID before moving forward

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And confirm that it isn’t a fake ID

Park your oversized car in the garage first before you call it quits. She’s 18 and legal age for whatever.

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