A good buddy of mine posted this today and said all his wishes came true. This hits hard...super happy for him but realize I’m in a really bad spot in life.

How do I get my fiancé excited about wedding planning? He thinks I am too bossy when it comes to planning but I just want to get things done and out of the way. I am a huge planner and do not like to procrastinate so I push to get things checked off to the lis.

Looking for new friends to hang out with in Oakland.

My old friends are getting boring 🤷🏽‍♀️🫢

The answer to 99% of relationship problems: they’re just not that into you. Once I understood this it was a game changer and never wasted my time on pointless dates or relationships again

Boyfriend got off the phone when the argument was his fault. Thinking about being the bigger person and calling him to resolve it, but realized I’m the one who always calls back and apologizes first. I want him to but also don’t want this to drag on. Thoughts?

How do you teach kids high-frequency words/fluency in addition to flashcards?

How to deal with change? 1 year out of college and living with 3 of my best friends, just talked about living together for next year but they are all moving to new cities. Another friend is moving to my city so I’ll be living with them but I can’t help but feel a little lonely/like a huge stage of my life is over. Any tips for dealing with this change? I guess I also feel a little guilty because I’m pretty covid conservative so I’ve turned down social outings this past year because of that.

It’s week 5 for me of the breakup and even though I had a full and fun weekend with friends and people I love, I woke up today so so sad because I wanted to text my ex. I just feel overall so defeated and exhausted from sadness and unmotivated at work :(

I’m not sure if I’m overthinking this but I (25M) have a feeling a friend(23F) is hitting on me. Whenever we hang out she’ll get really close and keep touching/poking me whenever we need to turn corners, cross the block, etc because she’s the navigator. When we sit next to each other on the bench she’ll be up on my personal space up. Just a lot of shoulder to shoulder touching. I had other female friends this touchy as well but I wouldn’t think anything of it because some people are touchier 1/2

I am generally uncomfortable when I’m around my mother-in-law’s husband.

While he is overall a decent guy, his anger issues, yelling at his wife for the slightest issue, and insulting nature makes me uncomfortable and triggers my own anger due to his blatant disrespect for just about everyone around him.

My mother-in-law says he’s worked on things, but it’s been 10 years of this and I’m not sure I want such behavior around my wife and our kids since we’re trying to conceive soon (cont).

Met my bf during covid in city x. Pre-meeting him I always wanted to move to city y. A year into our relationship a job opportunity came up in city y and my bf supported me through it. I have been living in city y and loving it and have been ldr for a year now. I want my bf to move to city y but he says it doesnt feel like home to him. I feel like I will have to move back to city x or we break up. There is a small chance he will move to city y but he’s not happy about it. Continued in comments.

🐠 who don’t want kids, have you thought about what happens later in life? I don’t want kids but my mom recently went through a lot of health issues and it got me thinking about who would be there...

Hi guys! My company is sending me to Derry, Ireland for a week for a conference, I'm thinking of extending my stay by 2 weeks to travel around and work remotely. Do you guys have any recommendations? My mom might join me since she wants to see the UK/Ireland, but after that I'll have another week to myself to do whatever. I would love suggestions!

How long do you cry after breakup? I cried for one night, and felt weird day after. Now I feel like I am way better, maybe it was because I know it had to happen (even if I was the one who got broken up with) and probably I see that more than hurt of relationship ending

Is it bad to spend time with your SO every weekend? We’re both busy during the week so weekends are the only time we get

Happy Halloween y’all!
I’m looking for some insight into the market for recent grads. It’s been a while since I’ve been a recent grad myself but my younger sibling just graduated from an ivy cum laude and has had no luck in her search for over 4 months. Is this normal? (For more context, she has a degree in economics, about a year of internship experience and is looking for a financial analyst role or something similar. She’s applied to roles through company sites, handshake, LinkedIn, indeed…)

I met this guy and it feels like he was made for me. Literally that God made him for me. I feel so blessed to have found him, but terrified of love. Now I think I’m unconsciously sabotaging everything. What can I do? Help! Please!

Anyone else moved out with a friend and realised you probably don't wanna be friends after your lease is done

My closest friend of 15 years told me she's been in love with me for several years. I don't know what to do. She's my closest friend. We talk about everything under the sun. I don't want to lose her. I could feel the pain in her voice as she told me this. She already knows she's just a friend to me. I'm serious about my girlfriend and we've discussed getting married. Is there anything I can do to lessen her pain and preserve the friendship?

Is a post-PhD gap year to travel and be reminded of what life is like a bad idea?

Moskowitz you should watch the final table!!!!

Getting approached by insurance company. any thoughts on what that jump in dollars should be for me to exit? I was thinking at least 30%

Hi I have worked for 5 years in a bank in retail banking,but now I am looking to switch to something else kindly advise on career opportunities where my experience may count as relevant.

I'm obsessed over Going Under which is hilarious for a work focused app like this. Anyone tried it yet?

For referral for below openings DM 🔥🔥
1. UX/UI Designer (Exp 2 to 6 Yrs)
2. UI Developer with Angular or React (Ex 4 to 10 Yrs)
3. Front end developer (Ex 6 to 8 Yrs)

I got power and internet back last night but I have no pressing matters so my bosses don’t need to know that 🫣🤫

Can anyone give me some reviews about @altimetrik. I'm getting a remote position The tech stack is java. Yoe 4+ Will work for client - Intuit

They must have really overcorrected on the layoffs. I've got people contacting me from way out in the fringes of my network weeks before rolling off during the holiday season. Manager shortage?

🐠 who don’t want kids, have you thought about what happens later in life? I don’t want kids but my mom recently went through a lot of health issues and it got me thinking about who would be there...

NYC 🐠 Is it ridiculous to spend $3200 per month on a studio? Gross monthly incoming is $12.5k (base) but I find it crazy to burn that much money on a shoebox

Has anyone ever made the jump from consulting to being a full time creative?

Recently I've realized that consulting isn't what I wanna do, but more broadly idk if a 9-5 business job is for me either. I've always wanted to make films and write books but I rarely see anyone in our industry make this kind of jump. Also finances 🥴

Overall I'm just not sure if I can see myself doing this for the next 30 years

Anyone here at Accenture strategy willing to chat over a virtual coffee?

Where are single men looking for single ladies these days? Tinder/hinge and other swipe apps seems to be flooded by onlyfan-ers which is fine (you do you boo) but not something i am looking for in a potential partner.

I have interviews with all big 4 in their strat/ops practice. For each of then, i will have to do a business case and present to partn. Anyone ever done one for experienced hire? Is it more technical?

Hi Folks, I have submitted the documents in last week 8 days ago for Test automation position. But still I didn't hear for further steps of HR round. I called HR, she said my docs are under review, they will get back to me. My question is what time it takes to release the offer for Persistent. Also anyone knows how is Accleriote BU at persistent, would be helpful for me. Thanks

Hi, I have cleared all the rounds in Walmart and the HR said from tomorrow the HR discussion and documents check will happen.

When can I expect the offer letter? Can they reject if NP is 90 days?

How many days/month/weeks does it take PWC AC to generate offer letter once they have collected all the documents? Would be very helpful information.

I got sick for a few days. I recovered but feel depressed and no motivation towards career. How can I get my ambition again

You ever get so tired you’re unable to fall asleep? Loads of smart people here so could someone explain it to me please?

I feel the shitest I have ever felt about work. My global lead has under resourced our department for years despite desperate cries from me to the CIO, herself and senior leadership we have grown by 400+ staff this year and still only have 2 dedicated resources for the US

Today I've been pulled into a meeting telling me support ticket numbers are too high and they are essentially demoting me - no PIP, no PDP just out the blue.

I'm really trying to not take this personally but I feel very angry

Met my bf during covid in city x. Pre-meeting him I always wanted to move to city y. A year into our relationship a job opportunity came up in city y and my bf supported me through it. I have been living in city y and loving it and have been ldr for a year now. I want my bf to move to city y but he says it doesnt feel like home to him. I feel like I will have to move back to city x or we break up. There is a small chance he will move to city y but he’s not happy about it. Continued in comments.

I tried joining hinge today , but the process is so lengthy🥴, I literally just gave up 😫

I moved my furniture around for about 2 more ft. of incremental space and this makes me so happy

Uber delivery people drive me crazy sometimes. I had surgery and can’t walk and this person left my food in the lobby when I asked them to bring it to my door. Wish I could change the tip to 0 🫠

Anyone experienced a sibling, who is a naturalized citizen, ‘weaponizing’ their status against you?

I heard someone said “dragon lady” at lunch, can I record it without their consent and report to HR?

I showed up to the airport high asf after smoking a bong and eating 100mg of edibles my friend gave me for the first time in my life AMA

I’m so mad that capitalism absorbs almost all the best talent on Earth – people who should be composers, artists, writers, scientists – and uses their labor for such cheap, inconsequential ends.

I keep forgetting to put away my vibrator on cleaning day. This time they even wrapped the cord up. 🧹🧹 🧹

I wanna be distracted from .. whatever admin work I am doing now. How was everyone’s day?

Unpopular opinion - we inherently rank and cater to certain minority groups over other. We fail to recognize the struggles from these other minority groups and focus on the issues being pushed on social media and in the news.