A group of four of us are going out of town. Is it weird to ask my girlfriend to pay for her part or do I pay for both of us? One of my friends got the place so we’d need to pay them.

I keep having sex with my ex and want to get back together (this is a recent thought & he doesn’t know) but we live on opposite coasts now. We broke up in 2016 yet we manage to hook up pretty much every other time we see each other. It always starts w an innocent hangout but he still does boyfriend duties and we end up hooking up. It feels good but also wrong at the same time. Is this normal? Am I too old for this F/30? I don’t do this with any of my other exes. Not even attracted to them anymo.

Been actively applying to jobs with no bites. Feeling pretty disheartened because really want to relocate closer to family. Going to keep trudging!

Current working as a Director of Sales and Marketing at a large hotel chain. I am now trying to branch out to a work from home position as I have a special needs bonus daughter who we now have every other week 💜. Would love to find something full time from home within the industry, or in the travel market so I can be with her.

What are some examples of healthy vs. unhealthy doubts in a relationship?

How can I make friends in Chicago?

I had someone from school flame and unfriend me on Facebook because I said jobs are the best way to help someone go from low income to self-sufficient. And this was after I had her child in school and was told I was a great teacher.

I am so thankful for my husband. We’ve had a rough year. But when he just pulled up his calendar app, I peeked the “therapy” recurring event for every Tuesday coming up.

It took a really long time to nudge and ask and plead and toss everything short of an ultimatum at him to start this work on his personal and emotional development.

There were times I wasn’t sure anything would change, and I worried maybe I was just wasting time… but he’s still proving he’s the right one :)

For those of you in school now that entered with a significant other… are you still with your SO?

My wife and I both work in Big Law and I'm thinking about divorcing her.



That way we can get remarried and take a 3 week honeymoon; I think we both could use the break.

One of my friends only talks about their SO in conversations. She's done this since they started dating three years ago. She steers the conversation to talk about random stuff he does that's not even interesting and our friends have no clue what's going on with her life, because we only hear about the guy. It's literally stuff like "Adam just got some coffee but was too tired to drink it so he's been watching tv for an hr." How do we ask her to stop? I usually just ignore the stories.

Anyone in the suburbs find it harder to make friends compared to the city? I don’t want to move back but I don’t know what else to do..

I want a baby but I want to go to law school next year but I also want to move to the islands next year (and I also don’t have a man but that’s besides the point). Decisions decisions.

Got a RFE for H1 extension and just cannot sleep at night and got an anxiety attack in the morning.
Can’t work properly! How are you guys holding up?? Can’t talk to parents they’ll get worried

My girlfriend is willing to break off our entire relationship because she found out my mom doesn't approve of her. We have no issues between each other but she said she can't be with someone who's family doesn't like her.

Bit o’ good news… my girlfriend’s mom came to visit after 3.5 years of not wanting to meet me 🥰 and she was very nice, even brought me a gift! 💕

What would you saw was the best thing you did for your child? What made the biggest impact in the life and in what way?

Man, "What? I'm in a meeting?"
Woman, "Did you leave the refrigerator door open again?"
Man, "I can't right now I'm in a meeting, can you close it"
Woman, "Please, make sure it's shut, how many times do I have to tell you. My breast milk is in there, I'm already taking care of one child I don't need another. I'm not your mother!"
Planner,"Hey man, we wanted to tell you but I guess you couldn't hear us. Your camera was off but you weren't on mute.'

I have a student with autism. He is mostly behavioral and at a lower learning level so he has to be in a separate classroom. We try to let him play with the students at recess or join in class parties. He has a sibling that attends school as well. When we were waiting in car line a group of girls talked about how they feel so bad for the sibling because of my student. Thankfully, neither student or sibling heard. But how do I respond to that as an adult? Especially, if they do hear?

Can straight guys and girls every just be friends? Every straight guy friend I have ever had has either expressed romantic or sexual interest at least once in our friendship or vice versa.

Is 170k (85 base/bonus) for a first year analyst market rate or low for PE?

What’s the market rate for government consultants at 1.5 YOE?

I moved cities and my company is giving me 12% decrease in my salary. My current salary is within my new cities range, and I am definitely not paid market rate to begin with…also for context I have always been a high performer, have many relevant certifications, and am involved with initiatives outside my billable work

I’m not interested in accepting a decrease this large. What happens if you don’t accept it? Do you see if they come back with something more reasonable or will they fire you?

Networked with Exec Director and SMs across multiple practices seeking to go-to-market with a practice for a particular emerging technology. They want me to join the team as a non-billable endeavor

Do you have any professional certifications in Data/Analytics? If so, which one would you recommend and why?

My high school age child is interested in learning python. Any recommendations for best self study courses or resources?

Hello Fishes, I am getting an offer for Technical Support engineer in Microsoft and they are offering

Close to 23 CTC (Including Stocks and variables) Fixed 17.
Yoe : 2 year 10 months now but will join when i will be 3 year Is it fine or can negotiate and if i do will they take the negotiations in consideration?

Has anyone worked with the company ROWE before in their business?

Hi fishes,
Can someone give me referral ?
Thanks!

What kind of masters should I do if I did engineering and working in Cyber Risk now

I just got an offer for 150 k base salary and 15K RSU per year as an IT Audit manager. Is that fair comp for mcol?

Does Ikon sell out or go up in price? I haven’t been a pass holder before but planning to buy for next season.

anyone here work at the kitchen (kraft-heinz agency)? was wondering if you like it, how it compares to a traditional agency structure, and any other opinions or perspectives on it

I completed my loop with AWS last Wednesday. Do they convey the bad news or you just don’t hear back from them.

I’ve noticed that I’m missing welcome points and green choice points. Is this a common and is there a better way to monitor than checking you’re recent activity?

American flight delayed 10 hrs today due to a mechanical issue, what is a reasonable amount of miles to ask for?

Is it worth flying unnecessary trips to hit EXP or just stay as Plat Pro?

I don’t know how much more koolaid I could drink before it all falls down

I only make my bed before I sleep in it at night. Anyone else?

What are some of your favourite books?

When a person tells me they have one, or shows MBA after their name and title my first thought is “Mediocre But Arrogant” because I have never seen anything but defensive, arrogant, egos from these types.

I had a dream where my utilization was -0.4%. I woke up in night sweats.

Dude when everyone was taking a picture I said “say acab” instead of “say cheese” and everyone actually said it

I was seeing someone for about 2 months. I wasn’t that into it and was about to cut it off but they did it first. Now I’m feeling hurt about being rejected even though I was planning to do the same 🙃

Hate being on my period. Sitting here crying for no damn reason.

Ughhh. Why do people type "would of" and "should of" ? It's "HAVE" not "OF".... would have, should have, could have. 🙃

Has anyone experienced sexual assault without reporting and come out in the other side? Had a horrific experience with a partner at my last employer and didn’t handle it in the best way - and tbh think it’s impacting my daily life more than I care to admit.

I have a questions for the people on here that have worked for Alfred Coffee: Have you seen favoritism in any of their locations?

I'm addicted to Korean bbq chicken. I can eat a whole box and I'm 90 lb

Out of curiosity, has anyone ever gotten a job from LinkedIn easy apply?

I dry heave before going to work. Usually I will do this in the shower. It started 5 years ago at the end of my first busy season. I think this is stress related. Does this happen to anyone else?