A partner introduced me as a “nonequity partner.” If this were you, would you say something?

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Wtf unless there is a reason for that, he should just be calling you his partner. Full stop.

I remember when I got promoted, one of the founding partners said he was so excited to be able to refer to me as his partner. Equity or not.

I'd be pissed.

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Totally uncalled for. I would politely say something. Said partner undermined your abilities by inferring non-equity status somehow makes you less skilled. At least that is how I’d have taken it. Perhaps said partner is a social moron and has no idea. Maybe you can help by educating (going out on a limb and guessing here) him.

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Absolutely. What does it say under your name on the website? Ask him/her why they felt the need to distance you from the firm

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