Hi all, How do you deal with having a good relationship with an ex-colleague, and then that person switches jobs, becomes a hiring manager, is hiring for a position you’re perfect for (experience + credentials) and then you reach out to them saying you’re interested and why it would be a good idea - and then they completely ghost you..I also sent an application via the website and got rejected. I am really always trying to help out old coworkwrs with getting jobs, but this is just frustrating 🥲
Speaking as a guy... sometimes I really hate guys
I don’t know a single woman who hasn’t been sexually assaulted/violated in their lives. I could not imagine having to see their name over and over
I'm so sorry :( you shouldn't have to go through this
That’s a lot of trauma you don’t deserve. Can you change groups? I know it shouldn’t be your responsibility but I can’t even imagine. Take care of you!
Good! Take that route then 100%! Still no need for your extended trauma.
Someone who sexually assaulted my best friend worked with me, it made my heart drop seeing him in the office or his name popping up anywhere. I am so sorry you have to deal with this and can’t imagine your pain.
I’m so sorry OP
Ugh I’m sorry OP 😢
You can block this person on LinkedIn. Better than nothing? I’m sorry
I’m sorry you have to deal with that.
I’m sorry you’re experiencing this. You will likely need to figure out what you’ll do when you’re staffed together on jobs, etc. Or is that unlikely to happen?
I hope you reported him at the time
Men get SA’d by women for sure! Most people who commit SA are men. Men get SA’d. Statistically, men are more likely to be SA’d by other men. Men get SA’d by women. All of these can be true without ignoring that majority of cases.
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Aw man, that sounds horrible. I hope you don't have to put up with that for long.
This is insane.. they don’t do background checks anymore??
This wouldn't come up. By the sound of it, the battery got away with it