About to be divorced. I feel like a loser!

Ladies, did you change your last name after getting married? I’m worried about the impact it will have on my publications.

Anyone trying to conceive at 44-45? Unfortunately I did not freeze my eggs when I should have. A bit of history: due to childhood trauma when my ex husband at the time told me he didn’t want children, deep down I thought that maybe it would be best or was not meant to be. I concentrated on career, education, but then I changed my mind. My ex husband said “my way or the highway,” and we divorced. Funnily enough, he remarried and has a child now. I moved back to Europe and then - tbc

Need advice.
I’ve met several friends through tinder, grindr, hinge. Strictly platonic friendships now. Have a boyfriend of 2 years who isn’t happy. Am I in the wrong for having those friends?

Asian immigrant 46yo F, 2 kids and hubby(very good home runners but no relationship for years); no family or friends close by. I have very hectic work life but remote. Today as I sat on my couch packed with medication from surgical procedure, I am feeling lonely. Would love to make friends and be in a relationship; go out with them; drink, watch movies and have some fun. Once a month, if possible. I wish!!

Every Friday I have my students complete a flexible bell ringer... drawings, lists, poems, etc.. Does anyone have any in mind that would be enjoyable to my grade 11 kiddos who range from Dual Credit to Inclusion?

Thanks!

Anyone has any tinnitus success story? Can healthy lifestyle fix it or something else? Really worried for my SO.

Those who find happiness intrinsically, how do you do it? I’ve always sought things and people to be happy. I’ve been less happy after college and the pandemic doesn’t help. Growing up, our family constantly moved (3 continents, 4 countries) and it was always difficult to make friends. I can’t complain to people about this because then I sound like the privileged prick who gets to travel and lives a arguably good life. Sorry for the rant 😔

Man, "What? I'm in a meeting?"
Woman, "Did you leave the refrigerator door open again?"
Man, "I can't right now I'm in a meeting, can you close it"
Woman, "Please, make sure it's shut, how many times do I have to tell you. My breast milk is in there, I'm already taking care of one child I don't need another. I'm not your mother!"
Planner,"Hey man, we wanted to tell you but I guess you couldn't hear us. Your camera was off but you weren't on mute.'

Anyone get anxiety thinking about how you’re already funding your parents lives because they gave up everything and worked to the bone for you? I get the concept of giving back and wanting to take care of my parents but damn didn’t realize my life would be so financially tied to them even at 23. It’s like we moved to the US just so I can give them my paycheck.

Dear boomers: please stop believing everything you see on Facebook or Twitter is the truth. You guys have no idea how many times I've had to chat with my parents about the fact that if an image or a text post isn't coming from a proper source, then it was probably written by some teenager in their bedroom. Anyone else?

What do you guys think is an appropriate time to:
1. Go exclusive 2. Go on a trip together 3. Move in together 4. Share finances 5. Get married ? I know it’s all totally personal but curious about ranges!

When do you and your SO start telling each other your income?

I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. We are not married or living together.

He knows how much I make because I told him after my promotion. He is the entrepreneur type with a passive income gig.

His business has been very slow since covid but he just seem to be chillin at home. He never tells me if he is doing financially okay so when I asked. He got offended and asked me to drop the topic because he is doing okay.

Why do we always tell people “Be the best version of yourself before starting a relationship?”
I feel this is wrong…first, if you’re someone who constantly wants to be better, this doesn’t work. Also, what happens when you’re going through things and you’re not the best version? What happens is…the going gets tough and then one person leaves the other.

I have a baby of 15 months. She is very introvert and start crying if any of friends comes to visit. Can any one suggest things what I can do to make my baby extroverted?

Is it just me or have the people with kids in vacation destinations really lost all consideration for those who also want to be on vacation without them?

Hi everyone, I’m 23 and currently net worth is about 80,000 since I live at home and parents paid for my tuition. I have 2000 cash, 8000 tech mutual fund (bought last march at lowest point), and the rest all in high growth technology stocks. What are your recommendations for next steps?

Hi All,

Is there anyone from HR or tech Team who works on this ibegin portal? I just wanted to know how this portal works, and what is the ETA to finalise everything? Does ibegin portal status affect offer letter release date?

Hi everyone,
I've been offered a position as a Consultant (M1 grade) at Deloitte London.
The package is 43k, which I find very little considering my 3YOE in consulting.
What do you suggest?

Are there any Detroit or comparable COL region folks? What are market value ranges these days in terms of Base and TC for a strategy consultant (4YOE) at big 4 or other consultancies including boutiques?

What Masters degree do y’all think is more valuable for breaking into finance: Masters of Financial Mathematics and Financial Technology or Masters of Economics. Thinking of using these as a method to breakout and then eventually going MBA route later on down the road. 1 YOE at Big 4 risk advisory, Engineering and Economics undergrad at top 50 University with 3.75 GPA if that matters at all.

Clinical nurse trainers in Chicago are and what do they make?

agency vs in-house? young creative who has agency experience already and is now mid-level looking into making the switch.

For Canadian citizen, applying for the L1B, what is the timeline like? ie. from the day you qualify/apply to when you can move

Are there any Freelance Motion Graphics Designers/Animators here?

Mental Health Field: Numerous positions including management, team lead, quality care coaches - any more! Ranging from positions with Hs diploma, bachelors, masters, APRN.
Large mental health agency in Florida
Google MHRC Florida and find join our team link for over 50 available positions. Rates and benefits are competitive to market rates.

*Keeping an eye open for new opportunities*
I have my Bachelor's degree in Healthcare Administration along with 13 years of experience in healthcare. My experience ranges from medical coding, biller/AR specialist, patient financial advocate, and since 2019 my role is in the Quality department as a health care data analyst.

Any suggestions (or books or articles) around taking startups from smaller (50-100) to the 300-500 range? Would love to read more about challenges that usually come up at this stage and how people navigate them. I just joined a series C and want to be prepared to navigate things.

Hi there - I currently work at an agency and am thinking about transitioning over to in-house. I’m curious about what kinds of client interactions are involved compared to agency life (which is of course client facing all the time!)

Any insight would be helpful. Thanks!

Buying new home first time in Austin, what you recommend to do 10% down payment or 20%. If I do 20% then saving around 60k in a year. Considering inflation is coming and house prices is going down day by day.

Anyone need Becker’s CPA books all four part brand new. Not used at all.

Impressed interviewers so far - what level and expected compensation might I come in at?

Non-tech role
~7 years of relevant experience

What are some good startups to apply to as a behavioral scientist? Thinking pre-IPO, Series C/D or later 🤔

When you have a vivid dream about someone in the office (beyond PG) and can't help but wonder if they know

Hello fishes,

How to start data engineer career from scratch

Techstack:DWH application support,sql,plsql,ETL
YOE :6.7

I have 11 yoe and getting an offer from HP Enterprise in Bangalore with 30 LPA Fixed and Offer Letter mentions variable. Work is in Go, Scala and Apache Spark. While Synechron offers me 33 LPA but no bonus in Hyderabad, work is in Java, Spring boot and MongoDB. I am confused between these two.

My current location is Hyderabad. I worked in PBC for 7 years.

So, basically my choice is between location (convenience) and Money vs Brand and Better Work.

Anybody here working at Cvent gurgaon?

How is the WLB and culture there?

Anyone working in Solera please? I am heading lot of negative feedback to not join. Need some clarification regarding PM role

Hi Fishes,

I have cleared technical interview of NVIDIA.
The designation they are offering is Senior SQA auto test developer for Pune location. How much expected CTC I should quote for below experience and CCTC
Y.O.E: 5.1 yrs
CCTC: 10.78 LPA

"chaatukarita" kaise kare?
appraisal chal raha hai?

Hi guys I am working in TCS. 1.6yoe cyber security
My cctc is 3.6lpa
I have offer in a product based company for 8.3lpa +1lpa jb
How much should I ask in further interviews in other companies ?

Hello Folks,
I am looking for job change, any reference will be appreciated. Have a good hands on experience in Python, Django, SQL, NoSql, Micro Services, AWS and etc. Total experience in years is six.

Thanks for reading the post.

Which are the best organizations for .Net tech stack in Pune.
Paramaters - WLB, Job Security, Perks/Facilities, Learnings, Short Term Onsites

Has anyone heard about haptik.
Is it a good place to work and grow as an individual?