About to leave soon for PE - more so because I wanted to try it out instead of stick in banking. Unlike a lot of stories, I actually love my group and feel really guilty leaving - my seniors genuinely care so much about me, but ultimately I’ve closed enough deals where it’s just repetition and I don’t want to wake up 40 one day with nothing to show for my life except 20 years crankiin the office and whatever many deals I’ll have closed by then. what’s the best way to go about breaking the news?

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But how’s PE that different from banking? Same deals just on the other side of the transactions, except no job security because you are dependent on fund’s performance. To me, it sounds like you are missing a purpose. A job, especially one in finance, cannot give your life meaning - please don’t fall for the trap that success and money would provide that. The question you are asking is more spiritual in nature, not materialistic (note, spiritual doesn’t necessarily mean religious). So, what it is that deep desire you have been saying not to all of this time? I suspect you already know the answer, but prefer to bury it under 80 hrs of work and sleep deprivation because that’s somehow easier than pursuing it. That’s a recipe for waking up at 40 and having “nothing”, no matter how much money you have saved up in the bank.

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You just tell them that you're leaving. Nothing much to it. You're not the first analyst to leave and you won't be the last.

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This. Sometimes people need to ask questions to be heard. Doesn’t make them bad people, just numbing to answer continually

People in this industry are terrible, take it from a lot of us who have been treated very poorly, the only reaction a majority of them will have when you quit is “damn, how is this going to affect me, must tell staffer to add new analyst onto my deals”

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