After 21 days of no contact, he contacted me. He told me he was in town (we were long distance) and then he got drunk at a bar and kept trying to get me to meet him. I replied once and said let’s talk tomorrow. We got coffee, then coffee turned into drinks and we spent the night together. He left this morning. I said everything I wanted to say, got answers from him and told him where he messed up/how he hurt me and he held himself accountable. He told me he had a panic attack (continued)

Dating a guy who won’t give me a tight hug because he claims to be a “southern gentleman”. Wtf

Single women, how do you prefer to meet men during these precarious times? Dating apps can be a slog. Any female fish here want to meet up for a drink? 33/M/recent transplant from NYC. Send me a DM!

Do you consider yourself promiscuous?

30/M going to be in NYC during the week next week and it would be great to grab a nice drink with any lady 🐠!

Any single girl staying in Kolkata?

Hi. Im a 28 yo girl and am very much bi-curious/questioning. I developed a slight crush on one of my friends who I had met in college and became really close with during the pandemic. She lives in NY and I live in South FL. Over the past 5 months we’ve spoken on the phone for hours almost every night and are constantly texting. We are both single and identify as straight. She has never mentioned her interest in women but I feel like she’s picked up on me being bi-curious. *CONT IN COMMENTS*

32 M in the Bay Area and bored in quarantine. Any F looking to chat?

I have this massive crush on my coworker and she's the type to kiss other girls for attention… so I've become her latest victim whenever we're out and I'm pretty sure she knows I'm gay and it's just 🙈 killing me softly sigh.

Could you seriously date someone who isn't on the same financial level as you?

Has anyone who uses online dating apps connect with someone, set up a first date, and then get cold feet/raincheck/reschedule on the day of the date? Idk how to stop doing this 🙈🙈🙈

25 years old woman
Location: Canada
Preference: guy aged > 25 - 35 within North America
Not interested in hookups or fwb

I haven’t seen a group that caters to this specific age range, so here we go :) don’t be shy. Share your info and let’s connect!

What’s a good bar to take myself out on a date this weekend?

Want to create a place for Asian singles to find each other.

Any single women who want to chat. Bi/lesbian only. Philly/New York. Age 31

Hi! Bi woman here and I have an etiquette (or perhaps social norm) question for other wlw. I didn’t figure out I was bi till the end of college, and I’ve had 2 long term serious relationships since then- one with a woman and one a man. I’m approaching 30 now & I see tiktoks from lesbians about all of these lesbian events they’ve been to and I’m wondering if I’m included in that? Is it a faux pas I’m not strictly into women and attend? I am v lost and my queer friends have moved away 😞

What are your top 3 neighborhoods/bars to meet other singles out? 28M on the north side currently.

In town for the weekend, looking for someone to get drinks with and maybe break in my hotel bed. 30, bi, non-binary

Need some rippers to play with, need 2.0 kds

Is the market really bad right now or am I just getting no interviews from job applications because I suck?!

What’s everyone’s thoughts on applying to several different positions within the same company? I’m looking at about 4 each with different focuses but mainly revolving around data analytics or entry level project analyst/coordinator. A friend of mine said it’s not a good look as it shows the company that you’re desperate. I really disagree, I feel it’s in your best interest to apply as many as you feel qualified for. Any thoughts?

Fresh Junior lateral and a colleague from past firm (different practice area) asked if I could take a pro Bono case because he trusts me with it. It would be completely creditable under my firm’s policy, but would it look weird to ask for pro Bono credit in my first few weeks post lateral?

Just worried it would look like I’m not prioritizing work that actually earns the firm money. Idk maybe I’m overthinking it. Thoughts? TIA!

How many leaves have you taken since the WFH started? I've seen some people who haven't taken any till now.

What’s the highest paying salary for a social worker in a skilled nursing home with 95 beds in the Raleigh NC area?

Any advice on benefits at McKinsey? For e.g. company car or xexec like platform at big 4s?

Hi Folks,

I had joined Deloitte India last June, with fixed pay as 15.5 LPA.
I have total 6.8 years of experience, Senior Consultant.


Now I have an offer from Mindtree, with Total CTC of 22 LPA,today is last day to accept the offer.

I know the appraisal is due in Deloitte India, letter will be released on June 26, my coach said my feedback was good, also scatterplot is good.

What should I do? Should I move on and put down papers or wait for appraisal results then search for opportunities.

Is it worth it to go into tax advisory from just a tax position? The traveling would be tough for me. But are exit opps that much better?

I’m from the UK and been offered to move either to NYC or SanFrancisco. I appreciate that both places are very different so my question is only about the living costs. Which city is more expensive to live in and is the difference big? What are the a average living costs in Sanfran?

Right click menu. If you have a Logitech keyboard with no key to access the right click menu, press FN and F10 to pop open the menu. Very handy when you are trying to lose the mouse.

Can employees from BCG UK confirm if one can work from outside the UK for a short period due to personal reasons? Please advise. Thanks in advance. #BostonConsultingGroup

Best business wallets? Currently rocking a red Goyard card holder

How did you get better at cooking? I'm a guy - never mastered the skill - but can recognize that only making pasta is probably not ideal.

Has anyone tried hair vitamins? Especially curious about the brand Viviscal if anyone has experience... do they really work or are they a scam?

Do we have any openings for UI path

Been working in Big 4 FDD for a little under two years, interviewing past 2-3 months for FDD, strategy, and IB. Received an offer from a MM FDD group for a 25% pay bump, but mainly looking to pivot out as I’ve burned out of FDD and want to move into a more finance focused role. Currently moved into second rounds at a senior strategy role for a F500 and case study stage for two boutique IB’s.

Would it be dumb to turn down the guaranteed FDD role and see how the others turn out?

Hi fishes,
Looking for a job change in sales industry, currently working with byjus and having to much toxic environment these days due to layoffs . Kindly recommend .

Which are the good countries to have PR or work visa for long term?
Working in IT and no plans right now to travel/switch/onsite... But thinking about long term..

He sent me a happy birthday GIF last night. Couldn’t even be bothered to type a message. It made me happy and angry at the same time. I’m not responding.

It’s week 5 for me of the breakup and even though I had a full and fun weekend with friends and people I love, I woke up today so so sad because I wanted to text my ex. I just feel overall so defeated and exhausted from sadness and unmotivated at work :(

He left 3 weeks ago. He’s still my first thought every morning, and I think about him for hours everyday. Normal? When does it go away?

TLDR: Getting over your ex of 2.5 years ghosting you after they said they wanted to reconnect.

I was dating someone for about 2.5 years and then we broke up because of COVID and the long distance was making it too difficult to continue. The break up must’ve been like a 4-5 minute FaceTime because I was very distraught. After we broke up, she started seeing someone else but I was heartbroken and it’s taken me over a year to really get over everything and process those feelings. (Cont.)

I ended my relationship of 6 years about 3 months ago bc he said he might regret not having kids later down the line. we were always on the fence but I’m leaning towards no. It hurts so much having to walk away from an otherwise perfect relationship. Wish this was easier…

I felt like a walking zombie during thanksgiving, barely eating and barely talking. My family is small and I told them ahead of time my relationship ended. I focused on my niece and nephews, cried when I wanted to and slept from 8pm-noon for the last 5 days. Showered once or twice. That’s the best I could do and that’s OK right now. I’m back in my apartment, just trying to take it one day at a time, and not re read his texts too much. My birthday is Thursday 🙄

I hate that I still want to hear from him. I just have no idea what I want him to say or what I want to say. I feel like if I get anywhere near him he’ll be able to sense my pain. Are we sure the no contact rule is only 21 days? I feel like I need 21 months.

I know this is a different kind of heartbreak, but I just had to make the difficult decision to go no contact with my parents after years of toxic and narcissistic behavior. It’s a weird feeling of immense sadness but also freedom. Can anyone else relate?

It’s been 5 weeks and I haven’t gone a day or night without crying and feeling haunted by them. I can’t eat, can’t sleep, can’t produce quality work, can’t find joy in anything I previously loved. This is the worst physical and psychological pain I’ve ever experienced.

I don’t understand how someone can lie about loving you for 6 months. We were together for almost a year (broke up a week before our anniversary). I said I love you first and he said it back. I asked for more reassurance last month with saying I love you more often. Now all of a sudden he said he didn’t know if he loved me and that love meant marriage for him. Okay well great thanks for telling me this now, 6 months after it was initially exchanged. I don’t understand how he could do that.

Is going through a “hoe phase” an appropriate response to a break up? On one hand I think it’s good to get out of your head, but on the other hand it might be used to avoid the core issue.

I made a mistake. I talked with the ex this morning. He said he misses me. And that while he walk talking to the other woman, he wished he was talking to me instead. And when he saw that I didn’t respond to his texts, he drank a shit ton. And then called this morning.

He’s not willing to commit to the other women because he’s not over me.

I need to block him.

I ran into my ex a couple days ago and it’s just all screwed with my head. We are kinda talking and he invited me to his company holiday party to be his +1.

And then he’s been ignoring me.