After going on a date, what’s standard time in which you’ll hear back from date?

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If guys are interested, they’ll usually text night of. If not, the decent ones may text you the next day to say they didn’t feel a connection, and the rest will likely just ghost.

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Jeez. I really “felt” like we connected.

I was going to give it until Friday or the weekend, considering that we just meet and it’s not logical to go 360 all at once when meeting someone.

From my experience, if he’s into me, he’ll bring up wanting to go out again at the end of the first date. And will make plans soon after.

Unless he’s traveling over the next few days. But even then, if he’s interested, he texts the next day.

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He def brought up seeing me again. He knows I’m busy this weekend w a wedding. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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How did everyone know the “date” was a fella? Very impressive. I’m a fella so I’ll give you my 2 cents if it’s helpful. I’ve been on a handful of dates that I thought went well and at the end I asked if I could see her again over the weekend and she made an excuse as like a “nah, let’s not.” I think you should follow up with him. It can’t hurt, right? Also, a beautiful, thoughtful, brilliant female attorney being forward is 🔥

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Great news, OP!

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I used to give 2-3 days, but now, if I don't hear from someone roughly 24 hours after the date, I know they aren't interested. EVERYONE has their phone on them 24/7, and it takes 30 seconds to send a message and show interest.

If the ending was a little ambiguous, I (F) will send a "reassuring" text that I had a really good time and hope to do it again, but most of the time, I know within 10 minutes if I want to see the person again or not.

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If there were sparks I text the same night and tell them I enjoyed their company…I would hope they would reciprocate the feeling. If not I’ll assume they’re not interested or playing. If you like someone don’t wait, we’re not longer in our 20s - if you like them tell it like it is

72 hours maybe

Really depends. Others take 3 days. But most take at least a few hours.

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