After two failed embryo transfers, I feel incredibly deflated. Where do we go from here ? How do we understand why embryo didn't implant and what should we do next.

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Have you done PGT-A testing of the embryos?

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Nope. Since I had only few embryos I didn't want to risk damaging them.

Completely agree, our clinic highly encourages everyone test, regardless of age, health, or quantity of embryos. For perspective, our highest graded was abnormal, which we would have transferred and most likely failed. Inquire on your clinic's success rate of embryo biopsies, which should make you feel better about the risk of damage.

Good luck!

How old are you? What’s the reason for infertility? I would do immunology, endo etc testing.

Disagree with comments above — studies don’t show much improvement with testing, especially if under 35.

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