AITA: Married (1 yr, together for 5+). SO earns significantly less than me (1/3rd my income), we live in HCOL. She’s continuously saying things that come across as entitled (I’m such a cheap date…we traveled internationally for 2 weeks). Rubbing me the wrong way.
How do I course correct ASAP?

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