Alright y’all I need some advice: I recently got out of a breakup about a month ago and started talking to this guy casually. We saw each other once and then we texted almost all day everyday during thanksgiving. We had a double date when I got back into town and it was a lot of fun but things went physically further than we expected (not all the way). This week I texted him and things seemed weird so I asked him if we were ok. He said “haha of course. We will see each other again. No rush...1/2

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Seems like he could want something casual. Why did things go physically further than you expected? Are you sure he wasn’t expecting it? Haha. I think you need to decide your intentions and tell him or dump him if they are not matching up. I would give it a little more time to feel it out and get another guy lined up in the queue in the meantime. Did you tell him you were going through life changes? Maybe he is worried about being a rebound or that you are not over your ex or maybe he is using it as an excuse. Either way, I hate when dudes tell me what I am thinking.

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I told him a while back that I was in the middle of a breakup. I would’ve felt bad if I would’ve lied so that was literally the truth.
But no didn’t say anything about life changes and assuming I’m going through some crisis made me mad hahah

He wanted to go all the way on date 1 but it didn’t happen so he isn’t interested.

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2/2.. you are going through a life change aren’t you”.
I feel like it was a total blow off but I’ve had differed opinions.

F here so I could be off lol. But he seems to be hesitant about going further with you because you just got out of a relationship. Kind of a dick move to assume how you feel though. It’s still early too... I dk what you want, but maybe the next time you see him in person you guys could talk about what you’re looking for so y’all are on the same page.

Thought maybe the same thing but the whole thing felt like a dick move to go from talking everyday to literally nothing. I completely unsure how to feel about it.

Take a step back and see if he initiates conversation/ a meet up. If not, move on.

M here. Maybe he wasn’t a fan of how things went when you guys hooked up. Otherwise not really sure why you mentioned it as a ‘but’.

Hopefully I’m wrong and it was great

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