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My sponsor, who is in AA, NA, and SAA, encouraged me to find 7 things to do every day and to try to knock out at least 5 of them. Also to keep track of how many I do to note when I am having easier / harder days and see if there is a correlation. For me it’s:
-Answers in the heart (SAA version of daily meditations)
-step work
-prayer
-journaling
-30 minutes of exercise
-go outside for a walk or sit in the sun
-meditation for 10 minutes.
For those working on staying sober, keep track of your sexual behavior and compulsions. Most of my fellowship are also in AA, several of whom are sober from alcohol for 10+ years.

Love this, and I’m actually reading Answers in the Heart this year too!

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