Am I in the wrong for staying to myself at work until I’m given stuff to do or should I try to network with my coworkers to learn things?

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Always network

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Not necessarily, but it depends on what you want out of your job

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Depends on how much you like your job. If you love what you do now, it’s ok. If you want to get promoted or change jobs someday, or get a raise of more than 3%, then talk to your coworkers.

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Was that a real question?

More you interact more comfortable you will become and more confident and comfortable you will become.

It says you have earned a badge of "conversion starter" so sleep down you are not as shy as you think. Perhaos you lack confidence which is not the same as being shy

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Bruh, network

No problem staying by yourself as long as you exceed a certain threshold of effort. Probably won’t go far though

Everyone will tell you to network but super meh to that unless youre trying to actually build connections and move up. I generally dont stick around long enough to care.

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