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Another question - These days does your parenting look more like a micromanager or a leader? What kind of parent do you want to be?

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This hits home for me. I worry that I am PMOing my way through parenting to ensure that all is taken care of when I travel... instead of going with the flow.

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I got this from a friend a while back as a joke, but I do feel like there is some truth to it.

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Both....? Need to focus on what’s most important, and let the small stuff go.

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Absolutely! When we move too far in one direction it can be problematic, but there's nothing wrong with doing plenty of both.

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Oh man, I am just trying to survive my way through it lol

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