Any book recos for dating someone with anxiety? Also open to tips as well? In an LTR and my partner falls into deep periods of anxiety and takes sometime to get him back. Weighs on me sometimes but I love him so here we are. I’m in therapy myself so that helps but interested in understanding anxiety more.

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Sorry I can't be much help but as someone with anxiety who is so eternally grateful for having a a partner that makes the effort to effectively deal with their anxiety, I just wanted to say thank you!!

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Currently reading "attached" and it breaks down secure/anxious/avoidant relationship personalities!

It doesn't focus on your partner's anxiety, but could help in figuring out pitfalls of communication/expectations that are a affected by his anxiety, as well as your own self-reflection!

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Read Modern Love few years back and enjoyed it. Would also suggest they do therapy (if not already).

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