Any Christmas gift ideas for new parents? My best friend is due next week, and I’d like to get her something thoughtful for Christmas that is for her and not just for the baby - any ideas? Thank you!!

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Loungewear/pajamas/a robe/slippers. As a new mom, I basically just rotated through pajamas nonstop. If she’s nursing, anything with buttons on the front is especially helpful. A journal and nice water bottle are nice too.

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Spa gift certificate (if she has someone who can watch the baby for a bit. Ideally her husband can on the weekend at the least)

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I delivered in mid Jan this year, and many of my friends gifted me gift cards from my favorite restaurants. I found that odd considering I was super prepared with frozen meals, but oh was I wrong! Those gift cards were so much cherished during those early months post baby!

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Depending on how close you are get her frida mom stuff.. honestly the best for after giving birth and you don’t think you need it but you do

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