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Any considerations when disclosing to the firm that your wife is pregnant? Debating when to share the news...

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Depends entirely on your company's leave policy and whether or not you are in a supportive environment.

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Why not? You're not the one who's pregnant so you don't have much to lose...

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You should be able to share joy in your life with your coworkers and boss. If you truly have to ask this question you're not in the right environment and need to look for a more supportive place!

It's hard to tell if they're cool with this kinda thing until you go through it. You probably won't notice discrimination otherwise. If you want to play it safe (and you're a dude) wait until the last trimester. If you're the pregnant woman, wait until you're showing as it'll probably be hard to avoid after. Read up on HR policies in the mean time.

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