Any female associates take less parental leave then they could? And why?

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I took every single day to which I was entitled

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I even asked for an unpaid extension but that’s just me

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Male associate who took every single day of my 18 weeks of leave. Another one on the way and I plan to do the exact same thing.

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I did, but I probably would not have if I was not wfh. Started a new job halfway through my pregnancy and wanted to prove my worth. Idk if it was the right decision or the wrong decision but the partners were so glad I was back and able to help. No one bothered me while I was out and everyone is very understanding of boundaries in the evenings and when unexpected doctor's appointments come up.

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Okay but what if I want 4 + babies? I’m on my first now, but I can just see them groaning when I have my second immediately after (I want my first 2 close in age).

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I’m realizing that… can’t make a leap now 9 months pregnant, but it’s been really difficult dealing with them.

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I’ve made it 5+ years in a NY M&A practice and have consistent exceeding expectations reviews. I’ve had a few mental breakdowns because of work during this time, but thankfully made it through. I’ve been in a near constant depressive/anxious state for family reasons for the last year and half, and am soon having my first kid. I’m scared shitless that I’ll spiral out of control both at work and at home if something doesn’t change soon. Any suggestions on how to keep this job and keep it together?

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Hey fishes, would be joining the PwC AC DDVIT team soon. Have some questions:

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4) are there on-site opportunities? If yes only US or Europe too?

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From which date health insurance starts after joining.

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I find myself questioning basic politeness I’ve learned since a child. Wondering what everyone else thinks. I work with an associate. She’s great. When she does good work or something I’ve asked her to do, I, of course, say “thank you!” I don’t really expect a response. She always replies “you’re welcome!” Or some variation. And for some reason, that’s awkward. Is it just me? I know in normal manners, that is the right response. Why does it sit funny?

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Just joined Deloitte India. Worst on boarding ever. The people were like robots, reading scripted matter. Seriously it was a pathetic experience. Esp Mumbai Talent team people unable to take queries even gave false information about leave policy. Deloitte Deloitte India Deloitte USI

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Any superb restaurant recommendations in vail? My wife and I will be celebrating our 10 year anniversary and we just had our first child. Since most dinners these days entail standing over our kitchen island, want to go all out on the food. We already have Matsuhisa and Mt. Standard lined up, curious to hear about any others!

I have earlier resigned from IBM GBS, Can we use our leaves to shorten our notice period for an early release? If yes then which leaves are applicable? IBM

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Hello, currently I am on notice period, last month I have worked on saturday and applied for compensatory off in BMS tool, and in workday I had applied as Casual time off as my manager told m to do so. now I am getting leave type mismatch email , and manager is saying you can ignore that email. So my question is did it impact in my Full and final settlement or final letter? I @m confused now. Please help

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Has anyone started a new job while expecting a child? I'm thinking about it but could use some input from people with experience.

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Recommendation for a tax person to help with complicated taxes - husband and I lived in NJ for part of 2021, he worked remotely for an nyc and then Long Island co., I worked in NJ and for a MA firm. We also both took parental leave and taxes weren’t taken out of some of that pay. Also, need child credit for said child who the IRS doesn’t know about yet.
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Have a shoot next week that’s coinciding with a blizzard. I’ve yet to deal with Mother Nature interfering with a shoot... any tips / tricks for preventing this from turning into an utter shitshow?

Anyone here in EY USA and can point me to the maternity policy? I can only find Canadian or UK versions ok the policy site!

anyone else feels stuck at current job, but not able to apply due to upcoming paid maternity leave benefits that you don't want to miss out on? currently still in first trimester !

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Whosoever have joined cognizant in 2020 and post that the notice period will be 3 months and not 2 months.

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When my boss asks me to send him a recap of what I’ll be working on next week but things are slow because all my campaigns are paused due to the upcoming Civil War.

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Trying to be really understanding about coworkers with no children feeling stressed during the holiday season, but it's hard not to ask if they'd prefer to go home to my sick kid, frustrated spouse and dirty house instead of their empty apartment where they have a flat screen TV and a beer waiting. How do you keep sane?

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Is it possible to go from Audit at Deloitte to becoming a resource manager at Deloitte? If so, how?

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Why are people now treating e-mail as instant messaging? I work with several people that for some reason expect all emails to be answered within minutes of being received…. I can understand the sense of urgency around some high-priority, time-sensitive matters… but everything does not fall into that category… it drives me crazy.

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Our company is considering offering 401K employer match. We are about 200 employees venture backed company. We have about 60% participation mostly the non HCEs and only some key employees contribute. We always pass top heavy test and wpassed the 2019 ADP/ACP test. We are aggressively hiring and project there will be increase in participation, particularly if we offer the match. Given this information would it make sense to continue with a traditional 401k plan or go with safe Harbor plan?

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Would PwC reimburse me if I study for my CFE and it is not required for my current job?

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How long do 1Ls have to accept their offers at your firms?

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Any boutique firms that do IP and don’t have billable hours? (I already know of BB)

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Did anyone here turn down an in-house role for reasons other than money? I have SEVERE cold feet about succeeding in-house and it being more stressful and “busy” than firm life. Help!

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It's super frustrating to be "time poor".

That's seemingly just the nature of working in Biglaw.

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How do you buy back time?

It's simple—by saving and investing.

And you don't need to be uber wealthy to regain control of your time.

Consider this…

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Random partner asked a litigation-related question to a partner I frequently work with (i’m a transactional associate). My partner cc’d me and said for me to briefly look. Asked the library. They got me a great case. Sent it back. Now the random partner is asking for more cases in another circuit.

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Latham bonuses 👀!

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About to finish my first year. I’m a specialist. Only going to hit 65% of my hours (took a 4 week vacation cause of wedding/hm).

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I’ve been fully utilized starting ~June, but first few months were slow. Am i fine?!

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I accepted an offer to work at an Am Law 100 firm in June. I just graduated law school in May. They offered a stipend and reimbursement for bar expenses. I am currently still waiting for any word on when the money will come. They have not started onboarding me or anything. Should I be concerned? Why are they dragging their feet? I have contacted them 3 times since June.

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