Any female enneagram 8s? Wondering what personality type I can work best with in a relationship, I’d love to hear your take

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I’m a female enneagram 8! Unfortunately though I don’t have much advice on this topic but would love to hear what others have to say! The fierce independence sometimes makes dating hard 😂

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Holy shit me! I never see anyone mention 8’s on my Instagram and I know a lot of people into enneagrams. Happily engaged! Not sure what enneagram type he is, but hes not an 8.

High level, he’s good at running meetings and managing people, but hates confrontation. Super tidy, fiercely loyal and generally very level-headed & agreeable which balances me out. He could be a 9

👋. My husband is a 7 :)

His forgetfulness, inability to plan things that well, etc: I am also super intense sometimes and need to remember to relax. We have night and day personalities but it works out in the long run lol

I’m an 8! Happily married but my husband hasn’t taken the personality test. We both push each other to succeed and we’re both pretty independent. He’s going to be a surgeon so we both have stressful careers and bond through that.

Sometimes an 8, sometimes a 4
Where can I get an accurate test

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