Any ladies here fall in love with someone else after you got married? How did you handle it?

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Falling in love implies you deliberately chose to be around that person for an extended period of time and chose to do all of the things that led you to fall in love. This whole process itself is shady and unfair to your spouse. Unless you are referring to infatuation (which can happen to anyone suddenly), I tend to side with the wronged spouse.

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Yes but likely in a very different way than what you are talking about. My husband and I actually fell in love with the same woman. We ended up being a triad for a while but eventually things ended due to crazy life stuff.

😲 Girl what?? Tell me more lol

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