Any ladies here married to a younger man? I am currently dating a man 1.5 years younger and am wondering if there is anything I should be worried about for the future.

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1.5 years is nothing. Just make sure he’s on the same level maturity wise. At any given age, men tend to be less mature than women

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M1 - in case it helps shake some dust off of your vintage assumptions, I’m a millennial (because it seems you like labels), work and sell very niche stuff and managed to climb to PPMD relatively earlier in career.

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Girl u are talking like u are 20 years older.

If u were born in same year .. same age but a 12 months apart would that make a diff ?
Then would you match exact days ? SMH
12 and 18 months are not that much apart ..

I am sure u are educated since you made it this far. Is this kind of sexist question related in any logic or just insecurity ? Don’t worry about others . Be happy. If you guys like each other 1.5 years diff means nothing.

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Lol. My husband is 5 younger op. It’s all fine. If he is decent and has a mature head on his shoulders & is grown up (doesn’t need validations from others & is firm about his decisions), go for it!

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Looking to marry an older lady

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my husband of 9 years is 2.5 years younger than me. He is still my best friend and I am his. We are completely comfortable with each other. there are some challenges time to time but that’s the case with every relationship.

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If you don’t mind
Me asking how old were you when you dated/married/had kids(if).

This is gonna be a fun thread !

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Younger man marrying a marginally older woman here - 2 years. It’s all cool.

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My husband is 2 years younger than me. It has never been an issue.

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We met at 18 and 20, married at 25 and 27, and we are 33 and 31 now. No kids yet, not sure if we will have any

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My husband is 3 years younger and life couldn’t be better. Age doesn’t matter.. just make sure you connect well.

Not sure what to say to you but he is my best friend, and age is never even talked about.

Thank you everyone! This makes me feel a lot better :)

Kinda sad that you need validation from strangers on an app. Trust your instincts and give your partner a fair chance.

Stay fit so you can keep up with him as you get older

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