Any lesbian/bi women in NYC want to make plans to hang out? Newly out and in need of some queer friends! DM me!

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My bf and I call each other everytime we have free time. However lately he seems disinterested in phone time. He never initiates calls anymore and he tells me he wants to hang up in the middle of the day and not right before bedtime. We live 4 hour apart. And agreed this is like living together from a distance, because I put him on the house speakers. What can I do to keep him engaged?

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I hate when people say "therapy is for everyone" or "you *need* therapy" (different than suggesting it). It has its place, but it's not some required silver bullet for self-growth.

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Pissed at my ex gf’s homophobic parents who are the reason for making our relationship hell by forcing her to get married to dudes they bring from a matrimonial website and for her to break up with me.

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Hot take, women and men both should get off dating apps if you aren’t getting results. Waste of time. Women get their egos stroked with all the attention but actually don’t go on many dates or get approached in real life as much cause of what social media and dating apps have created. Men just waste time and get their hopes up and it creates a thought processs of “why approach if I can match potentially w someone just as hot or better online”

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I am a Mechanical Engineer with 5 years of field experince. I am looking for a job change. Also i did MBA through corrospondence.
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I gave my technical interview on 14th June for EPAM Anywhere and it went great. But it's been 4 days and I have not got a reply from the recruiter team. How much days does it take for them to reply back?

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I hooked up on Grindr only once for the past year (and outside my home city). What’s going on with the world? My friend told me that he hooked up once a week (sometimes multiple times) 😨

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