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Any tips on finding motivation after maternity leave? I’ve never been so uninterested in my job and am instead just thinking of all the time i’m missing with my baby 😕

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It sucks. But you kind of get used to it a little bit. I’ve been back from mat leave for 2 months and I still miss him like crazy every day. I take a little baby break and watch a video of him when I need to. My motivation is working my ass off during the day so I can sign off as soon as possible to spend time with him. I completely agree with you though, very much changed my perspective on work and don’t care nearly as much anymore.

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It comes back.. somewhat, it’s definitely harder at first. Mine is 10 months old and I enjoy my job but would quit in a heartbeat if we could financially afford it. How old is your little one?

Sending you love ❤️ Thankfully I’ve been able to work from home and my husband watches her or we have a nanny come part time. It’s not always ideal but it’s made me feel like I can work and be a mom. Do you have any options for flexibility?

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