Anyone be in a relationship where the other has an alcohol problem? Every night out drinking leads to emotional breakdowns and fights. Been going on for 6 months now. Should I break up?

Boyfriend got off the phone when the argument was his fault. Thinking about being the bigger person and calling him to resolve it, but realized I’m the one who always calls back and apologizes first. I want him to but also don’t want this to drag on. Thoughts?

My brother is going through some really intense chemo so him and his wife are often recovering at their house for a week without going out.

Since they can’t take any visitors I would love to send them some sort of at home activity kit (wine tasting or anything!) to keep them busy during these lockdown weeks.

Please share any suggestions you have below! No limits in terms of activity or budget. I have about 8-9 weeks that I plans to cover.

Thank you!

what are the biggest red flags in a distance relationship? I would say being spotty on communication is the biggest one for me.

In a LT relationship that checks all the boxes, and my SO makes an obvious effort to make sure I feel appreciated. Problem is every time I try to do something special for them, I'm met with unenthusiastic comments or "you didn't have to do that". They don't make much effort to join my family events, and when there was a stressful event in their family they asked me to stay home and watch the pet while they went to visit. I was the only SO not there, and while they made it clear i wasn't at fault

I’m not sure if I’m overthinking this but I (25M) have a feeling a friend(23F) is hitting on me. Whenever we hang out she’ll get really close and keep touching/poking me whenever we need to turn corners, cross the block, etc because she’s the navigator. When we sit next to each other on the bench she’ll be up on my personal space up. Just a lot of shoulder to shoulder touching. I had other female friends this touchy as well but I wouldn’t think anything of it because some people are touchier 1/2

Just got divorced after being separated for a year. Any suggestions for places to go and meet new folks?

Ladies, did you change your last name after getting married? I’m worried about the impact it will have on my publications.

I can’t live with my spouse anymore and I think the feeling is mutual. We have kids (<10yrs) and I would hate to not be able to see them everyday. I’m afraid of the negative impact on the kids of this separation/divorce. Long term I don’t know what the solution is. Any advice would be appreciated. I feel like the biggest failure in the world.

Idk what to do anymore. A few years back I struggled with gambling addiction and put myself in so much debt and never told anyone. Fast forward I have a gf who thinks I’m successfully but I am drowning in debt still that I truly don’t know how I’ll get out of. Can’t keep up with bills and put this front up much longer. Absolutely miserable

Is it a taboo to accept and admit that you are uncomfortable with your in laws and would like a separate home with husband?
Background: we are Indians and my husband always wished to stay with his mom and sis but I am unable to adjust, plus he never takes a stand when I am cornered.

Reached out to an ex after not being in contact for 4 years. Said “Hi, I hope all is well.” No response. Intention was not to get back together (we’re both married now), more to mend fences since we were good friends once upon a time. Was reaching out a mistake?

My husband quit his very well-paying job in February to become a freelancer. I was fully supportive of this move because he was miserable at his job. He is hustling and trying to find work but it is slow. We are depleting our savings and I am stressed about our financial health and feel like retirement is getting pushed further out. I am struggling not to feel resentful. I don’t want to push him back into a career he hates but also feel like part of being an adult is making hard decisions.

Anyone ever gone through a separation with their spouse and have 3 small kids (under 6) in the equation? My spouse asked me for one tonight 🥲

I only have about 4 friends in real life that I can count on and the older I get, the more content I am with that.

I used to be really sad (sometimes I still am) but I’m starting to realize that quality is truly better than quantity.

I used to wonder who I would invite to my wedding, baby shower, etc. Why wasn’t I good enough to have tons of friends? But that’s just not my path and it’s okay.

I suspect that my dad is cheating on my mum again, he has history of a long affair when I was still a kid. I want to confront him to be sure, but my mum lacks financial security. What should I do?

I graduated last year but my friends from my hometown (we’re all back here again) are very wealthy and are on gap years/ gap lifes, and I have fomo bc I have to work and can’t stay out every night or drop everything and go to Mexico with a days notice, does anyone have tips for getting over this jealousy?

I’m 27 and think I’m starting to resent my girlfriend that I’ve been dating since I was 18

I'm an engineer and I love building things but based on what I've seen about Gen Z, I think I'm going to raise my kids in a less modern style. No TV, no internet, at least until a certain age.

Married white female / 35 / got that covid 19 (extra pounds😅) seeking a human being in these trying times for taking out trash and doing the chores i don’t feel like. would consider a fake marriage for citizenship purposes assuming you are a practicing lawyer

Hi all! I just completed my master's in nursing with an emphasis in public health. I have clinical experience in ICU, PCU, telemetry, med/surg, OB, mother/baby and most recently utilization review and provider appeals. I have a strong skills in auditing and QM/QI with PM experience in implementing order protocols and treatment bundles. I am looking to transition into public health nursing and am open to any variety of specialties with that subset. Please let me know of any opportunities!

Can someone confirm what should be salary of PMO Assistant Manager with 6+ years experience?

Favorite new W&W release?

Hi all, trying to decide whether or not a move to San Francisco would be worthwhile, currently WFH just north of Toronto as a PM and wondering what the pros and cons of the Bay Area are compared to here, thanks!

Hello everyone! I am looking for referrals in Scotiabank (specifically Research Consultant). Any leads will be appreciated. Thanks in advance

Anybody who recently joined Capgemini? Please DM me i want to ask some questions. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

any one joining Capgemini Chennai on Tomorrow?

I need to see Will Sharp aka Ethan with a different haircut.

Anything to think about or look out for when another vendor at client loses their recompete? I’m expecting lots of rebadging but new to federal and don’t really know what this is going to look like

Hope everyone is doing well. I’m a resourceful project manager moving to the Detroit area in June. If you have any leads I’d love to connect.

Anyone still holding 4/17 puts?

About how many deals do y’all work on in a year?

any down sides to TS/FDD over audit?

I just got a drug charge (weed) that is a misdemeanor and i have a clearance. It could possibly be expunged, but maybe not. Should i report this to my FSO officer? Will i lose my job? 1st offense ever

Need a business idea for a side hustle guys. My skills and passions include writing, marketing, technology, health, entrepreneurship, and no-code applications.

Have educational background in science and medicine. Work experience in pharma and marketing.

Everything I think of seems like a pipedream: a blog/newsletter type thing doesn't seem feasible with the millions of them already out there; same for any kind of simple ecommerce or dropshipping or FBA thing; etc etc.

Opinions: Stay in the West for a few more years to get more experience and passport, or move to ME to be closer to somewhat elderly parents (who would much prefer life there than in the West) ?

Intervi experience for analyst mastercard anyone?

My SO had a career change, went back to school, and just started with his new job. He is struggling a bit and is very stressed out. What can I do to help?

Been with a girl for years. We get along well and enjoy each other's company. We're comfortable around each other, and I've generally been happy with her. As we've begun talking about marriage, I'm really giving some deliberate thought as to whether she's the right life partner for me. I'd pondered it before, but our relationship progressed very organically so never gave it too much serious consideration.

Now that I think of it, cont..

What’s a good non romantic birthday gift for a roommate? M gifting a F

The person I’m seeing has been responding to my texts days later (only a recent development) and it’s making me anxious. They have been busy the past two weeks with PhD exams and their last message was them planning when they could see me again (in a really flirty way too), so logically I know the delay is not a sign of disinterest. But I have an anxious attachment style (if that’s not obvious) and my therapist is on leave right now, so I’m struggling. Do any of you have any advice?

Is anyone having second thoughts about their current relationship?

Gift ideas for a SO? Looking for ideas to give to a guy as a token of appreciation. $50ish? Im seeing many girls turn to PS5 but I'm looking for something more personal

Where are single men looking for single ladies these days? Tinder/hinge and other swipe apps seems to be flooded by onlyfan-ers which is fine (you do you boo) but not something i am looking for in a potential partner.

Looking for some perspective: we just got a brand new $2,000 glass top 78" dining table. I asked my husband to please use a table cloth when he uses that table for d&d with his friends to avoid scratches and the loud dice on the table. He got upset that I "don't let him enjoy our stuff," that I "hate the sound of him having fun," and he says I am being unreasonable. From my perspective, I just want to preserve this expensive piece of furniture that we both love. Am I being unreasonable?

Is it bad to spend time with your SO every weekend? We’re both busy during the week so weekends are the only time we get

I met a couple girls through a friend and they’re both really smart and fun to be with. I’ve been thinking about getting back in the dating scene but don’t know which one to ask out. They’re both friends so I can’t really try the other if one doesn’t work out. Thoughts?

Any white males on here dating Asian females, specifically Chinese? I’m a white male with a Chinese girlfriend and I’m a bit worried about meeting the parents (they are in China; we are in Australia). They’ve said to my girlfriend that they’d prefer her to date Chinese so they are able to communicate with her boyfriend, but other than that it seems ok. Does anyone have experience in this situation? How did it turn out?

My GF has trouble standing up for herself. She's on client travel and one of her co-workers made her really upset (very uncalled for and should have never happened). She called me crying. After consoling her I told her that she needs to go to her manager and possibly HR (yes it's to that level).
She told me she can't and she's not that person (she thinks she'll get the other person fired). She knows that she should and hates that she doesn't stand up for herself. What can I do to help?

My wife and I have 2 children. We got married young and I have handled all expenses since marriage. I've even paid for some of her schooling and have encouraged her to continue finishing her Bachelors (she has difficulty choosing what to study and insinuated that when I mention the drawbacks of certain fields, it puts her off studying at all, she's also in student loan debt because her family took out loans in her name and never paid them off).

Long story short, now we have....

What to do when someone says that they love you but you don’t feel that love in the relationship?

I am generally uncomfortable when I’m around my mother-in-law’s husband.

While he is overall a decent guy, his anger issues, yelling at his wife for the slightest issue, and insulting nature makes me uncomfortable and triggers my own anger due to his blatant disrespect for just about everyone around him.

My mother-in-law says he’s worked on things, but it’s been 10 years of this and I’m not sure I want such behavior around my wife and our kids since we’re trying to conceive soon (cont).

What's the best relationship advice you've heard recently?

Entering 2-4 years of long distance. Been together for a year. I know she is the one for me, any tips on making it as painless as possible?

I recently watched a video that talked about "voluntary reduction of income", which is where a person intentionally leaves their job and/or takes a lower paying job than what they qualified for in order to decrease chid support payments. I don't understand why anyone would ever do that? Can anyone explain reasoning behind this action?