Anyone else addicted to the beginning of relationships? After about a month, I start to feel like it’s a friendship and routine. The fun, learning about each other, sneaky ways to surprise each other doesn’t feel special anymore. Just regular stuff. I hate that I get bored so easily when it was incredible at one point.

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Nope, I hate that part. I want to get the part that’s comfortable and secure 😩

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It felt comfortable and secure the entire time! Except for the first week, I felt smitten with him, like we were perfect matches and I knew him for ages. Now I feel like the spark isn’t there anymore.

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Nope🧐

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Agree. Beginnings are easy, running things takes more work.

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I solve this problem by not talking to the person until at least after we’re engaged.

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Getting bored is your own problem. You have the power to keep things interesting

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Communicate that to him and suggest something spontaneous to do and mention you miss doing things like that. You can’t read each other’s minds

Most of life is the routine.

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Me 🙋🏼‍♀️

Me too, boredom factor sets in pretty quickly and I fall out of love as quickly as I fell in it

Well I would definitely say I can get into guys quickly but it doesn’t take long before I know as much as I want to

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Dating and the early stuff is easy and effortless (and effortlessly fun and exciting); the rest is harder….

Are you having sex during that first month?

I have nothing positive to respond to this. All the best!

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