Anyone else constantly confused about whether or not to quit consulting? I am doing very well in this job but conflicted about the quality of life it leaves me with outside of work...

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🙋🏻‍♀️ this is me all the time. I like the variety, flexibility, and the PTO and salary isn’t bad. But I also would enjoy more predictability and work life balance. I fear regretting down the road that I didn’t spend enough time nurturing relationships and doing the stuff that “really matters”

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You will regret it.

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I've been so determined to quit in the past and then something amazing comes along that pumps my veins full of Kool-Aid (chance to travel to a new geography, recognition from a senior partner) and I'm a true believer once again.

I wish I could know if I'd be happier somewhere else without the 'risk' if giving up all the shiny things about this job.

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Seems like most people are able to boomerang back to consulting if they didn't like their exit opportunity. Maybe that makes the decision to leave a little easier?

You guys, day one in my new industry job and I already feel like a massive weight has been lifted. Life is too short - make a change and drive your career (and life!).

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🙋🏼‍♀️ - I’m already looking at other jobs outside of consulting. As soon as I find one that I feels gives me the variety in work, similar-ish salary but a permanent work location and reasonable hours I’m outta hereeee.

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I waver back and forth. The work is interesting enough and people good enough, and I’m able to navigate around most of the shit-filled land mines. And I have decent hours, the pay is good, and I haven’t found anything definitely better yet

But sometimes things come out of the sky and I’ll end up with a week or more of terrible hours combined with mind numbing work and frustrating clients or teammates—all from things outside my control and often the result of someone dropping the ball--and then I think about quitting on the spot

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I understand the sentiment but out of control related events happen in industry too.

Don’t spend 15 years asking yourself this question like i did! Go look for other opportunities!

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I did great with my interviews, but once I got here and started the work, I have been struggling every step of the way. Every time something new comes up, I get anxiety about what to expect and what my manager will expect from me. I think the job is making me depressed and perhaps I just don’t belong. I need to get out before I lose my mind.

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Yes. Just made the 1 year mark. Just trying to figure things out.

Get out before you get institutionalized and out skilled.

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I’m leaving... been trying to get out for the longest. I waited hoping it would get better but it hasn’t and now I’m being forced out. Luckily my network is amazing and if all goes well I’ll be starting a new position at a mid size company a week or so after my last day

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I've only been in consulting for a year. I have experience beforehand and an MBA, but I feel like I need to tough out at least another year to solidify earning potential, knowledge and option to come back to consulting. But having worked outside of consulting, I know this WLB is not for me. I enjoyed my daily and weekly life much more before consulting even though I made much less (although still a good salary)

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I’m coming up on my two-year anniversary with a similar background. I miss the predictability of WLB pre-B-school, but I would vote tough it out another year but don’t turn down a great opportunity if one comes along

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Get out before it’s too late!!

Agree with the sentiment to get out of consulting as fast as you can. I didn’t get out when I had the opportunity and regret my choice daily

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