Anyone else constantly looking for the next project, job, etc to be “THE ONE”? I feel like I’m always unsatisfied with where I am currently and can’t be proud of any..cont

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I’m more of a fan of, grass is brown everywhere

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Hahaha it is and it isn’t. I think the sooner you come to terms with nothing is “the one” and just work with what works best for you, the orientation changes

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One of the most helpful things I’ve heard is “the grass isn’t greener on the other side, it’s greener where you water it.” I’m often stuck inside my fantasy head where I imagine things to be better elsewhere instead of where I am, but in this headspace, reality will never compare to my idealized version of it. Meditation (especially gratitude practices) and therapy has helped me break a lot of that down and get me more grounded in reality. Also I really don’t use social media as much anymore.

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Grass is greener where u water it

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of my accomplishments because I’m always just comparing myself to other ppl (obviously perpetuated by mostly fabricated lives on social media). How do you learn to be happy where you are currently and appreciate everything and everyone you have and not take it all for granted?

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