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Anyone else feel like there’s a double standard when dating? A lot of guys seem to lose interest when I mention I travel every week for my current project. At the same time all of leadership = men.

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Nope. All my current and ex BFs have been supportive of my travel. Some envied it. Some wished I was home more often. All were understanding and accommodating about it. Current guy makes dinner by time I get home. Pick a good guy who’s got your back. Otherwise dump him

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Plenty of stories in the singles bowl about men getting dinged for traveling as well. Your equation seems to be off.

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