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Anyone else feel stuck? I know some of it is Covid but I feel like I take one step forward and two steps back. I just can't get anything to move forward. I had a rough break up, stuck in my job, can't leave the country, no hope that anything will change in the near future.

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I just posted a message about getting through depression in the consulting bowl and this hits right where it hurts! 😫 But I’m really really really hoping for a brighter 2021!!!

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Ugh depression is really hard. I slipped pretty deep earlier this year. If you have the energy to do something that brings you immense joy, get after it.

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This is so me right now. Family and friend are not here, haven’t been anywhere all year, going through a really tough time at work. Not sure where my life is going. One day I feel motivated and the next day I’m in a downward spiral. Just feel so lost right now

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Yeah. I’ve always had a pretty clear goal and this year I’ve lost it. So unhappy and lost and not sure what I’m even doing all this for.

You’re not alone OP. It’ll get better. You’re doing great, even if it doesn’t feel like it.

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You’re not alone OP! We’ll get through it and be better for it. But right now, go easy on yourself!

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You’re not alone and I hope you do know that, OP All of us are struggling in our own ways. As they say, this too shall pass.

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Feel the same way. Had two break ups both serious relationship in the last 12 months :( and working crazy hours. I feel you. Hope things can get better

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