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Anyone else feel that the men that end up in your life are always pathological liars? I’m a very honest person, I make this well known with whoever I date. I’m deeply saddened that I am always lied to

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Same. I think because pathological liars are always testing to see if their lies are fool proof. They feel a sense of power and control when they think people believe their stories especially when you don't question their inconsistencies. The moment I learn a man is lying about petty things, I lose a great deal of respect for them and remove any sort of priority they have in my life.

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Probably everything — even down to what they had for breakfast! 😂

Mmmm...some of them, but not all. I’ve just come to accept that most people have issues and the best I can do is look for signs, run when I see the flags. There are good people, so don’t get totally defeated. I do get your frustration though.

Not shifting blame, but if it’s recurring issue - maybe reflect on what your initial attraction is/was to each of those people.

I realize like five years ago, that despite having a wonderful father, I was very use to the manipulative narcissist tactics/behavior of my grandfather. I read ‘Women Who Love Too Much’ by Dr. Robin Norwood and it changed my life.

What kind of guys are you attracted to?

Liars apparently! Mostly professional services guys

You may be an easy target without knowing it, but it’s okay because you can always learn how to avoid these types. Perhaps Read Baggage Reclaim blog, look up Natlue on Instagram, or the book Mr Unavailable and the Fallback girl,

I attract emotionally unavailable men so I share your pain. Trying to actively work on my dating patterns and fix them

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