Anyone else find really hard being here away from friends/family on their birthdays?

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Adults celebrating birthdays is very silly, IMO


Ridiculous. Everyone should celebrate their birthday. Kids or adults. It is a milestone and good opportunity to have a good time with family and friends.

Make some friends here…in time will get better


Yup many of us can’t have it both ways. Either dollars or family. Have seen instances where children couldn’t even attend parents last rituals.

Yes. And that is the other and negative side of immigration, however you may want to justify it.

I don’t know what plot of sci-fi movie has to do with me missing my family and friends in india. But OK


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