Anyone else having trouble finding shoes for the wedding?!?

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I am not really a shoe person so decided this was an area to save in, especially since my dress is long and hardly anyone will see them. I bought mine from Nordstrom rack for $35! I love them hahaha

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Yes. One of the hardest things for me to find!! I ended up with a pair from Badgley Mischka and will change in to Vans. BM was great because they're on Amazon and I could do a try before you buy.

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I just bought 2 pairs of BM from Nordstrom for the same reason!

Yeah I have no idea what to get. Nobody will be able to see my shoes so I’m leaning towards nude Stuart Weitzman block heels because they’ll be comfortable and I can rewear them. My dress is blush so none of the white shoes match

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I’ll give BM a try! I tried Loeffler Randall (got them on sale) but they just don’t fit me right. Struggling!!!!

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I got a couple of styles that are on the fancier side but could rewear for other events from Sam Edelman (satin heels), something bleu (floral mules), and loeffler Randall (sparkly chunky heels)…postponed wedding means too much time to keep shopping for things lol

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YES! White shoes seem to always be labeled “bridal” and cost so much. I went with silver.
Also - the “bridal” $300 pumps are going to be hidden under a gown anyway… so you’ll maybe have a getting ready photo or two and that’s it

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(I bought two pairs to decide which is comfier - one Nina, one Badgley Mischka Jewel)

Bella Belle makes beautiful shoes.

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FYI they are all about all day comfort but if you watch their insta stories about brides who wear the shoes all day, the brides actually don’t. It’s a lot of pagentry.

I'm trying to decide if I want to splurge on heels otherwise I'm just wearing these silver metallic work heels I bought that are very comfy but very worn in. No one will see it and I just want to be comfortable.

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