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Anyone else super self destructive? How have you gotten I’ve it?

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I am when it comes to how I see myself and then I also self sabotage potential relationships cause I think I’m not good enough or attractive for them.

I’m starting to go to therapy next week to help.

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Ah, yea. I hope therapy works for you! I’m thinking I should also go to therapy. It would probably help to lay everything out.

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