Anyone ever changed therapists after a year or two with the same one? How did you know it was time for a switch? It feels like I haven’t made any progress in the last few months… (but maybe it’s just the pandemic/virtual sessions?)

Does google begin the PERM process immediately for new hires?

Hi! Just got offered a remote job with a startup for $75k base + 2k stock options, and benefits (100% covered insurance, wellness, 401(K) (no match 🥲) and tons more, BUT I enjoy the company I’m at and the people. The company I’m at wants me to move to either NYC or SF. I would taking almost a 11% pay cut but at least I wouldn’t pay rent or get taxed NYC/CA tax since I’d be in Florida! Would you take a pay cut for a remote job with more take home money after taxes?

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Can anybody refer me to Deloitte looking to get a job there

I am a useless human being without coffee.
I am an anxious mess with regular caffeine.

¯\_(ツ)_/¯ Oh well. *sips on*

Hi I am being interviewed for Business operations specialist position with 4 member interview panel. I am coming out of my career break. So any insights on cracking the interview would be helpful. Thanks

Philly fishbowl happy hour after Covid???

(1/2) Advice needed: I had a fantastic interview exactly 3wks ago. Agency said they liked me and are waiting for new biz pitch results before they can hire. Sent a thank you note a few days after

Best place to get your dry cleaning done?

Interviewing for a big tech marketing position. Any recommendations on books to read/ resources to prepare?

How many of you live in the ny metro area?

I received an offer I can’t turn down. My company had a few others leave recently, and my close counterpart is on vacation until October, so the GC and rest of the company will likely be in disarray after I leave.

Any advice on how to put in my 2 weeks? I’d prefer to leave on a good note and not a sour one…

Is it possible to take certain files with you when leaving? Is this monitored, always or focused on the end of your tenure? I’m not talking client data but maybe doc templates or certain slide decks or program code like a VBA macro.

How significant is the difference in pay between pe investment team and ops?

Question: how much money can be made in Tech sales by someone with a top 3 business school MBA and 12 years of non-sales experience? I've worked for some big names, but in Ops & Finance mainly. My base is $75K w/ an OTE of $60K and my opportunity cost was a finance role at a FAANG company making ~$135K base plus $40K stock. Trying to decide if I made the right decision

Is there a consulting network for consultants in Denver?

Is this normal? I need to adjust the way I see life.

I met this guy online and we clicked right away, started talking everyday and seeing each other. We talked about future plans but he told me from the start how he struggles talking about serious topics and I need to give a push.

I realized he never talks about the past. So I decided to know about his past, has he been into hook-up culture (which if you're for, u do u but I dont appreciate it especially at my age)

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White girl rose is actually good wine.

What’s the salary range right now for in-house senior paralegals and legal ops professionals? Negotiating a raise and finding it’s between $60k up to $140k depending on location and company. Zero consistency. Thanks!

My family doesn’t understand me, my bf wants what he wants and won’t compromise for us and is pressuring me to move across the country to be with him and get married in the short term, my (contd)

The voice of an outlook email notification gives me anxiety. Does anyone else feel this way or know how i can calm myself? This is a new feeling

Extremely anxious about starting on a client that will require regular M-Th travel. Was told that isn't common in my practice but it is the way things are headed. How to calm down and manage?

Formal Dx: ASPD, with great therapists and meds I'm usually pretty stable. I try to have something "fun" on the horizon to focus on so I can stay positive. The pandemic washed a lot of that away for many of us. Had a trip planned..postponed. then another. Was supposed to get my new car today but weather has it delayed. My broken brain has me in a spiral, trying to convince me I don't deserve the stuff. Stay strong everyone, we'll get through it together.

any tips on battling/preventing imposter syndrome? starting a new job soon and worried that i might disappoint/fall below expectations

Is there a good way for us here to support each other? I know this is one of those things everyone wants to keep it private but I’d be interested to see if there’s anything we can do a group to help each other out. I don’t have any ideas myself but just putting it out there

Who here has anxiety about the smallest things ? For instance , today I wore a shirt to the client site that was perfectly ironed. Because of the material it already is wrinkly again. Now I’m (contd)

How do you deal with spending the holidays alone? I've been alone for many years and it's never bothered me as much as this year. I've been by myself since March and I'm very lonely.

I don't like telling people I'm alone because I don't like the "I'm sorry" response so I avoid them even more. It's a circle I can't seem to break. I'm feeling very depressed.

How to shake off a chronic sense of loneliness? I’ve tried therapy, reaching out to folks, putting myself out there, but nothing seems to help.

Should I be considering anything other than CBT for therapy? Have intrusive thought OCD.

I just broke off my first real relationship after almost 5 years. Even though I made the final call, the pain is still horrible and I have depression/anxiety separate from this. Any advice beyond the

Which antidepressants other than Wellbutrin have zero negative impact on sexual performance? All SSRIs seem to suck in this area.

Anyone has a landmark forum referral or discount code?

Do you ever feel like no one would notice if you were gone?

Starting antidepressants today. I’m worried it’s going to be worse before it gets better, but this is my last hope.

Can I take Wellbutrin at lunch time or does it have to be first thing in the morning?

For those who have overcome workplace anxiety, how did you do it? Currently struggling with living the consultant life and could use advice on dealing with work related anxiety.

The more time I’ve spent in therapy, the more it seems like my job is significantly contributing to my unhappiness. Problem is I have never worked anywhere else (have been on like 5 projects though and 5 years at the firm), so I’m not sure if it’s working itself that makes me unhappy, or maybe consulting specifically. Can anyone relate? How do you know when it is time to move on?

Hate feeling paralyzed - getting back to the hotel and wanting to do stuff/work out/read/do trainings, but instead just lay down and feel unable to find any motivation