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Anyone experience total mind block in social situations? I know I struggle with self-esteem/confidence, but it’s so frustrating for me making friends and getting closer to colleagues bc in most social situations I’m so anxious that I feel unable to have a calm and enjoyable conversation with people…it’s torture and makes me feel repulsive.

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